I'm adding two links to this post. It has been brought to my attention that many letters are being sent to members of our own government--urging them to ACT! The first is for letters which can be written to local congressmen, and the second link is to contact senators. Please urge your friends and family to flood them with appeals to do whatever they can to get involved. It all helps. This sweet mama posted a form letter that can be used. Thanks, friends.
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I know that many of you who read my blog are familiar with the current happenings in Ukraine. For those of you who are not, I'll fill you in. I don't even know if I am able to find the words to stress the urgency of this, but here goes.
On November 3, 2010, the Ukrainian parliament voted to move forward with voting on legislation that will put a moratorium on ALL international adoptions. The bill has already passed once. Now it must be voted on one more time before it becomes LAW. I have heard the second vote will take place sometime this month.
Goodness gracious!
Do you know what that means?
An absolute catastrophe. If the bill remains as it is currently written...no more children will be allowed to be adopted from that country. Just. Like. That.
I know many people read this kind of thing and just click over to the next blog, article, or what ever's next on the agenda. I used to be like that. I used to think there was not much I could do about a desperate situation like this.
Click. Click. Click.
Perhaps if we had never adopted our two girls from that country, I would still be one of those people. Perhaps if I never saw the things I saw with my own two eyes I could just let something like this go and never give it a second thought. Perhaps I could move right along.
But once your life is changed--once you have seen more than your human heart can bear, well, you know that you will go to the ends of the earth to do something. Anything. You know that sitting back and doing nothing is no longer an option.
And so I'm coming to you, my dear bloggy friends, pleading for you to stand with me (and countless others) in prayer at this crucial hour--begging God to intercede on behalf of His precious children waiting for forever families in that country.
Huge decisions are about to be made in Ukraine. Decisions which will affect umpteen children and many, many families currently in the middle of an adoption. Even families in the process of adopting may NOT be allowed to move forward with their adoptions. Court dates will be denied and families will be sent packing back to the USA.
Oh Father.
This kind of thing is not new in the world of international adoptions. Sadly, we've seen it many times before. Many countries have closed their doors to adoptions. Vietnam, Guatemala, Romania, Nepal, Cambodia, Liberia, to name a few. We used to be able to adopt children from all those nations--but sadly no longer can. My heart breaks when I read the stories that many of you have shared with me about YOUR children still being in those countries and your absolute heartache at not being able to bring them home. Oh God in heaven.
So here we are with yet another country on the brink of doing the exact same thing. Am I surprised? Not at all, actually. When I was in our daughter's country last May there was talk that this may happen. This is a battle, friends. This is a WAR! A battle that rages for the lives of hundreds and hundreds of innocent children who's ONLY hope is an international adoption. Children who have special needs have no worth or value in their own countries. None. Their chances of being adopted in the country of their birth are extremely slim. Fact.
Right now there are hundreds of families in the process of adopting from Ukraine. So many sweet children are waiting for mommy and daddy to come. Some of those kids are hanging on by a thread--their adoption is a matter of life and death. Literally. I have seen it, lived it, breathed it, and had my heart broken by it.
I believe that the most important thing we can do as the Body of Christ is to pray without ceasing. I believe my God is able to fight this battle on behalf of every orphan who waits. He's the ONE who holds the hearts of Kings in His hands.
Pray that the hearts of those making this radical decision will be softened.
Pray that each and every family in the process of rescuing a child from this country WILL be able to go and get their child.
Pray that more and more children who have special needs or who are older WILL be able to get out of there--before it is too late.
Pray that one more country does NOT close it's doors to amazing families who can go and rescue children from their overcrowded, poorly run, heinous orphanages.
Pray that if they sign this as a law, that they make an exemption for all children who have special needs--and they can still be adopted.
Pray that this warfare will come to an end and that the enemy will NOT have the victory in this. Pray that his evil plans will be thwarted, in the name of Jesus!
Pray, pray, pray. God hears every cry of our hearts. I know that to be truth. Please help to spread the word and get the people of God to rise up and pray for this urgent and desperate need. Please help us to do whatever it takes to stop this ridiculous ban from moving forward. My heart cannot fathom what the consequences of a successful outcome will mean for thousands of children.
Their precious lives depend on it! It's as simple as that.

43 sweet thoughts from friends:
PRAYING!!!!!!!!!!!
Kayla
http://bebrandnew.blogspot.com
Praying friend!!!
Oh my goodness!
I didn't think they could do that! They shouldn't be able to do that! Although they shouldn't be able to tie kids to cribs and drug them but that dosent stop them??!
Hope this law does not pass.
If it does will the people in the current adoption process be denied their kids?
This is HORRIBLE!
Add Romania to your list. We were in country completing our adoption when the decision to close the country occurred. I've always felt like we just got there in time. If things had been delayed even a few weeks, we would not have our daughter and, given her medical condition, she would never have survived. I will pray.
When Guatemala closed our daughter Naomi was in process. We will never forget that time and how we felt for the following year knowing all the children and families who were stranded in process. Still three years later none of them are home.
It is tragic and very sad. UNICEF has done horrible things for many countries.
We will join you in prayer!
Love you,
Jill
Does that mean that most of the kids on Reece's Rainbow will not be adoptable.
Why are they doing this? I dont understand. I understand why satan is doing it but what are the reasons behind closing the doors?
I will pray.
When they halted adoptions in Russia we lost our child who is deaf and blind and in desperate need of a family. I still think of her daily and pray for her. I want to find a way over there so I can just hold her and help them out even if she is not meant to be mine.
If God is for us then who can ever stop and if our God is with us what can stand against? All we need to do is pray. God will help.
Be blessed
Ashlee
http://ourjourneytoadoption.beckfamily143.com/
I know your fear. We live the reality of it everyday as we begin our third year of waiting for our son in Kyrgyzstan for that very reason. Pray, pray, pray and remember our Father is indeed sovereign and He does hear our prayers.
Praying with you!
Amy <><
I have been praying for these countries for years--although I did not know that Ukraine was considering closing. :( My heart especially hurts for Guatemala because our Jake is from there and I, too, saw some horrible situations. Was sooo hopeful that kids with SN's might be able to come home from Guatemala, but now it looks so hopeless. Just gotta keep praying!! Standing with you in defense of the fatherless....
Praying... and crying. Will keep praying!!
Thank you . . . Thank you . . . from those of us who are "in the trenches" at the moment.
http://bringingkatyahome11.blogspot.com/
We are one of those families in process to bring two sweeties home. They are quite delayed and are not self feeders so for our boys this vote is literally life or death. Michael has already turned 4 and will be transferred if they vote to close adoptions. They must be rescued now. We are due to leave in 9 days for our SDA appt. PLEASE, PLEASE pray for God to intervene.
Debbie
praying to bring home Michael and Matthew, (4)
http://the-scenic-route-momto6kids.blogspot.com
praying in Normal, IL
Praying right along with you!!
How can this happen? I mean, why would that decision be made? I just do not understand. At all. Is it political?
Praying for a miracle for so many children who are there waiting now, and for so many more who will be there in the future, too ...
All the best,
Nicole A., now in LA
We are one of the 65 waiting families in Kyrgyzstan program (2 years waiting after moratorium). We did a concurrent adoption in Ukraine and came home with a beautiful son (4 years) 2 1/2 months ago. I of course heard rumblings but did not know of this latest news. We will pray everyday. We saw many children who desperately need good homes. I really don't understand what is going on in the world anymore. Sad.
Yes, praying, thank you for alerting us about Ukraine's situation.
I am another Kyrgyz parent, waiting over 2 years t bring home a special needs girl.
It's time to get organized! If you are on a Ukraine adoption Yahoo group or forum, start talking to each other about actions. Form your own group if needed. Start contacting the Dept. of State Office of Children's Issues. Ask for Ambassador Susan Jacobs people. She is Sec. Hillary Clinton's Special Amb. for Children's Affairs. She recently took a trip to Kyrgyzstan to work on behalf of us and our adoptions. Also contact the people at Both Ends Burning. They are committed to stopping the shut down of IA. Pray, pray, pray, and do, do, do!
Standing in agreement with you and storming the gates of heaven.
Blessings,
Suzanne
Oh my friend. I just cannot understand why on earth they would consider shutting that door. As you said. It is warfare. Thanks for letting us know whats happening. I too will be praying!!!
I agree with you. This is a very serious matter and yes there are so many of us that have and still will keep clicking over it and never think twice about it. I for one was that person until those of you who have adopted opened my eyes to how precious and sad these little ones are.
I promise you if this was 10-20yrs ago when I was financially stable and healthy enough to adopt a little one I would have done it in a heart beat. I had no idea back then about internattional adoptions. I was single and they did not want me to adopt small children here in the US. I wanted so badly to be a Mother and wish I had of known what I know today.
I will be praying and writing my senator's as well.
Love,
Sheila
Just contacted my representatives and will continue to pray. Thank you for bringing this to our attention.
Storming the gates of Heaven on behalf of these precious children! These doors CANNOT close for them!!!
Ack! awful! what is wrong with people???!!!
(p.s. i've emailed you a few times and no response? am i in the spam folder?)
:)
I have posted this information on our Adoption in the News page and throughout of Facebook and Twitter networks. I hope it was OK to include a link to your blog for more information. I have enjoyed "getting to know you" though your blog and have added you to my blogroll for SN adoptions. Thanks.
Dawn Davenport
Host of the radio show Creating a Family: Talk about Adoption & Infertility
www.CreatingaFamily.org
I urge everyone to pray if this does go through some kind of agreement can come for special needs adoptions and adoptions in process. Oh my soul. I am preparing a letter to Parker Griffith, have met him in person and used to play bunco (crazy dice game for women!) with his daughters. PRAY. PRAY. Without ceasing...
Oh my...PRAYING!!
Adeye, I have been praying about this. Thanks for the information. I hope it's okay, but I took some of your words for a blog post of my own, asking for help! I don't have the following you do, but I wanted to do my part...
I just sent letter to everyone from both my husband and myself. Thank you for making me aware of this.
Ashley
My dear young cousins joined our family via adoption from Ukraine almost five years ago - I shudder to think what would have occurred to them after they aged out, had they not been adopted, though the special needs are mild. Still...they would have been victims of a system which forces 16 year olds onto their own meager resources (and having been separated though biological siblings, most likely never would have seen one another again). Now they are flourishing and loved so much...
Prayers, an RR bake sale, and contacts with senators and representatives are all in the works for this weekend. Thanks for all you do...
Susan in Ky
Cousin to Two Beauties from Ukraine
praying...it is sad...i wish they can understand how adoption can truly change children's life...especially those who are in special need...they need a mama and baba and a sweet home...without parents, the future can be scary and difficult...i can truly feel that sometimes...
I'm going to write a post on my blog and put a link to yours. We are at war, fighting a fight for our children and future children...these children. Someone has to fight for them and with God on our side....well, we know who wins.
Oh no! Will this stop the adoptions already in progress? I'm thinking of Julia and Yuri and Monroe.... How horrible!
Lisa V
Letters sent and praying!
Mom of 9 Blessings,You rock! You understand what is happening. Ukraine issues are different than Vietnam, Guatemala and Nepal. Our own country shut these down. Nepal government wanted to continue adoptions, but thanks to UNICEF and other child human rights organizations countries are being shut down. There is a real crisis in international adoption. Our country is siding with these organizations who feel that children should be raised in their own countries. Read this if you want to learn more. It was written by a lawyer at Harvard. http://www.utexas.edu/law/centers/humanrights/events/speaker-series-papers/Bartholet_GP.pdf
We were apart of the Nepal program when our government shut it down. Yes, I grieve for my daughter I will never hold.
This is why we should never blindly donate at stores, online or any other place doing fundraisers that campaign for child protection laws without understanding their agendas. This is happening in the USA. What sounds noble and good on the surface may well be that 'wolf in sheep's clothing'. Combining my faith and prayers with yours that this law will never pass!! In Jesus name!
sent my letter! thanks for making us aware!
praying with you : ) and thankful for people like you who have gone and saved them..you have a beautiful family
Contacted all of my representatives and praying in the meantime!
Praying!
Narobi (TX)
I am absolutely PRAYING over this!!!!
Yes, really.
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