December 20, 2010

time is running out...please help!

Twenty days is all this handsome young man has left to find his forever family. 

Just. Twenty. Days.

And then--he will never have the opportunity to be adopted again.

Oh my heart.  I cannot stand the thought.

Look how sweet he is....



I cannot even imagine being in his situation.  Seeing countless "little kids" leave the orphanage with their mom and dad and wondering, wondering, wondering, if his turn will ever come.

Sadly for this young man, time is about to run out.  He has waited for such a long time on waiting child lists--but no one has ever said "Yes" to him.  Can you imagine being passed over so many times?

Absolutely heartbreaking for any young person.

According to the agency that has his file, apart from a history of Hep B (just like our girls--very easy special need) he is healthy, smart, and a great thirteen year old kid.

Goodness, I just know that his family is out there somewhere.  I know someone will go.  Why?  Because I believe with all my heart that there is a family for every child who waits.  They just have not found him yet.

Unfortunately, there's a catch...

He absolutely must be adopted before his fourteenth birthday in February.  That means that his family MUST already have a dossier in Ch*na.  They must be in the process of adopting another child from this country and are willing to add this boy to their adoption.  Or, their dossier is in country and they are waiting on a referral.

One of my favorite lines from the movie, "Faith Like Potatoes" is when Angus Buchan says, "The condition for a miracle is difficulty, however the condition for a great miracle is not difficulty, but impossibility."

God loves to show His glory through seemingly impossible situations.

It's time to stand a trust the Father for a GREAT MIRACLE for this sweet guy.  As time ticks by and things become more and more impossible, I ask myself again, "Is anything impossible for the Lord God Almighty?"

I know the answer all too well.  So do many of you.

Nothing is impossible!  Nothing at all.  Not even this. 

Please, friends, can you help us to spread the word about this young man?  Post him everywhere you possibly can in the hope that his mom and dad will find him soon--before it is too late.  Once he turns fourteen he will be considered unavailable for adoption.  He will never know what it feels like to be loved and treasured by parents.  He will remain in the orphanage until he is sixteen...and then...well, who knows?  It is the sad reality of any orphan who ages out of the system.  Hopelessness.

Twenty days...that's all we have to get the word out there on the internet.  Will you please help?  Will you pray with us for the GREAT MIRACLE that he so desperately needs this Christmas?  Will you help to spread the word wherever you can?

I so appreciate your help.  You guys totally rock.

Let's give him the best Christmas present ever...a family!

If anyone wants more details, hit "contact" on the navigation bar and I'll put you in touch with the right people.

23 sweet thoughts from friends:

Lori said...

Oh my heart. PLEASE, someone step forward for this boy! Older child adoption isn't as scary as some may think. I know from experience!

PRAY ABOUT IT, please!

Anonymous said...

Thank you so much Adeye for sharing this young man's story! My family is praying for him and expecting a GREAT MIRACLE!!

Melissa

Andrea said...

Praying for a miracle! Praying hard!!!

Debi said...

Praying and believing God for a miracle. Such a precious boy.

Joy said...

I will attest to the fact that this CAN be done. We adopted an aging out girl. We had nine days to get everything together. We made it and she's been with us almost two years.

Praying!

Susan A said...

Praying for him.

Rachel said...

Praying for this sweet boy's forever family to find him quickly!

Melanie said...

Adeye,
Please send me some info on him. What agency has his file? We have our Dossier in China now with a LID on Dec 8th. WE are currently adopting a waiting child age 7. Our only obstacle is money. We still need the momey to travel for our daughter. We do not have the agency fees for a second adoption, but oh my heart just aches for this boy. I would go tomorrow and bring him home.
melaniekk23@aol.com
Melanie

Tammy said...

I'm going to copy your entire post to my blog later today. if you mind (which i'm guessing you don't) email me or fb me.

Ivy said...

Praying and sharing...

Jean said...

Praying for this dear boy!

Praying a family steps forward quickly!

rarejule said...

Praying for a Christmas miracle!

Stephanie said...

Posted on my FB and blog. Praying for a Christmas miracle for this sweet boy! Thanks so much for your heart!

My Thoughts said...

Praying for this boy and all of the orphaned children. I'm not old enough to adopt from China, but I hope that no matter what happens with this child's adoption situation, the Lord protects him and all others as well.

Jill said...

groaning, believing, expecting ... in faith of the One who knows what He's doing!

Melanie said...

We have asked our agency about him and to look at his file. Our agency is not encouraging and they seem to think that we could not get our I800 paperwork filed and back in time. Please pray for God's will for thsi situation and if we are not the right family that someone else will step up. Older child adoption is not for the feint of heart but it is beautiful. There is so much joy even in the hardships. We are not worried about that at all or his SN. We have a daughter that is Hep B positive. We just wnat to do God's will and if that means that we are to adopt him then we are ready...we just need God's help to part the redsea of paperwork and finances. Please pray for God's will in his life.

Blessings,
Melanie

Anonymous said...

Melanie, we are praying and working on the I800 part of things. I'll keep you posted!

Anonymous said...

Lord God please send this young man a Christian family!

Kelly said...

I can't stop thinking about (and praying for) this young man. I have passed the word and put the word out on Facebook. I would take him in a heartbeat, but I no longer meet China's requirements (single). Oh my word he would make an awesome big brother to my little ones from China. Praying for a MIRACLE!

Ann said...

Praying here too--God is in the miracle business! I have been advocating for this boy also--would be so THRILLED to see him find a family!!!!!!!!!!!

Suzanne said...

Melanie- if your agency can make it happen, I'm sure I'm not alone in saying that there are people like me who would love to help you with your expenses. I can't offer much, but if each person gives a little, I'm sure your financial needs can be met...

Renea Lynch said...

Any news on his status? I have shared with friends and posted to my blog. Please let us know. Praying!!

Anonymous said...

There is news about him on Melanie's blog:

http://journeytojordynandjailynn.blogspot.com/

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