March 24, 2011

facing the giant

Dearest friends,

I don't know many of you personally.  But what I do know is that for most of the people who read here, we are connected by one thing--our love for God.  We share the same heart for the lost, the broken people of this world, those who suffer, and children in need.  We are sisters and brothers in Christ.  What a privilege that is!

And so today I come to you, my dear family in Christ, begging for your prayers.  I don't even know if I can put into words the urgency of what I am about to share.

Last weekend I posted a need right here.  The sweet Davis family

This is Tesney with her precious, precious Kirill.  Isn't he just darling?

Kirill has Down syndrome.


Tesney and Greg traveled to a country far away TWICE.  They met their beautiful boy. They fell head over heals in love. They snuggled him, loved on him, whispered promises of the glorious future that awaits him in his new family, and told him just how passionately they loved him.  They were smitten.

They were invited to return to that country to attend court.  They did that just last week.

For five long hours they were questioned. 

The judge deliberated.  Kirill's future rested in her hands.  She alone had the power to grant him a family, or deny him one.


Contrary to every bit of advice she was given from others in the courtroom that day...

She said, "NO!"

"You cannot adopt this boy.  He is better off in an institution than in a family."  The judge felt that his needs were better served in an orphanage than in a family. She stated he was "socially unadaptable" because of his "medical condition."

Outrageous!

Kirill was denied the RIGHT to have a family--simply because he has Down Syndrome.

The family returned home last weekend.  Broken, but not defeated. Hurt, but refusing the give up.

With courage in their hearts and fierce determination, they are rising up and fighting with everything that is within them.  They are working around the clock to put the necessary paperwork together to appeal the decision. 


BUT.

In the natural, things are not looking favorable at this stage.  The news so far has been bleak.  All the information they have received this week about their impending appeal is very discouraging, to say the least.

Yet, this is one of those times in life where we CHOOSE not to look at what we can see through our human eyes.  But rather, we choose to see things through the eyes of faith--for that is what we are told to do as followers of Christ.  The Bible is full of amazing stories of God coming through for His people in impossible situations.  Each and every time God called them to have faith, even just as tiny as a mustard seed.  God commanded His people time and time again to press in and trust Him, even as they faced their humongous giants.

The book of Hebrews describes faith as the "confidence in what we hope for and assurance about what we do not see."

Friends, God is raising up an army of people to pray for this situation.  I'm pleading with you to join in--to pray, to fast, to spread the word and to NOT waiver in your faith that sweet Kirill will come home.


Like I said in this post, this is a spiritual battle!  This is not a war against flesh and blood, but against the powers of this dark world and the forces of evil that try to hold orphans captive.  This battle is not just for Kirill, friends, but for many, many other orphans that can be adopted out of this region.  A successful appeal will open the doors for countless children to get out of orphanages and into loving homes.  There is so much at stake here.  So, so much.

But it all begins with one little boy.  One little angel who matters.  One little lovie who matters to God and to his family who had to leave him behind.

I put myself in their position and I just cannot even imagine having to physically walk away and leave my children in the orphanage. 


Please will you help me today?  Will you spread the word about Kirill far and wide?  Will you storm the gates of heaven and intercede for this child, his family, and the other children in this region?

Please. 

I am reminded of David as he stood before Goliath.  A little dude standing before the huge giant.  All he had was five small stones and a sling--and the absolute assurance that His God was able to fight the battle on his behalf.  That was all David needed--and all he needed to know.  The Lord was able!

Today the battle for Kirill feels gigantic.  But, like David, we have an assurance.  A promise.  A hope. A commander of the army who is far greater than any other.  His name is the great I AM.  He is leading many of us into battle to pray for this situation.

Will you join us?

Will you pray?

Will you face this giant with us?

Will you hold up the arms of the family who is fighting on the front line?

I appreciate it so very much.

And I know they do too.


And the LORD said, "I will cause all my goodness to pass in front of you, and I will proclaim my name, the LORD, in your presence. I will have mercy on whom I will have mercy, and I will have compassion on whom I will have compassion."

Exodus 33:17-19

Now, show us your glory, Lord!

70 sweet thoughts from friends:

connie said...

Oh, friend, I'm going to the Lord right now to intercede for this precious family, that they would be united very soon!

Mia said...

Thanks for posting this! I will pray for this precious little boy...

Jill Samter Photography said...

Our prayers are with sweet Krill and his family! God has already gone before them and He has not forsaken them or this precious child!

Love you!
Jill

Jennifer said...

Our prayers are with Krill and his family. The Lord can do anything, nothing is too great.

The Arnold Family said...

Yes yes yes! I fell asleep last night with my heart aching for these precious children. We have been praying and will continue to pray. These children are God's angels on earth. Precious precious blessings to us all!

Anna Theurer said...

Of course I will be praying fore dear Krill and his forever family. Thank you for posting this.

Julie said...

Adeye, don't think me weird or crazy, I'm just a Jesus-loving mom in the middle of IL whose heart has been touched by all the adoption blogs this year. I can't stop reading them and have been praying constantly the past week for Carrington's situation and for the Davis family.
On Mon. or Tues. night this week I had just read your blog before bed (I should mention that I commonly dream about people I see or talk to right before I go to sleep). This was the blog with all the awesome pics of Hailey. That night, I had a dream that you & I and our kiddos had met at a pool somewhere (between CA & IL??) and I was in the water swimming with your beautiful Hailey! She was just swimming all over, face under water, blowing bubbles, just like a fish -- she was also bigger than I guess she is today. It was gorgeous and I hope a picture of her life (& yours) in a few years! You & I were sharing a great faith-talk too! Thanks for your love of Jesus shared so beautifully in your words on this website! Julie

Keely said...

Your blog is such a blessing to me each time I read...
I am praying for this little boy and his family.

jlcanf said...

Standing in prayer with this dear family.

Cassandra Sines said...

Praying for this family and that precious little boy. I have also posted on my FB asking people to pray!

Lovesgarlic said...

Praying for them in Massachusetts.

Kristy said...

Heart broken for this family and praying that God's glory will shine through tremendously in this most difficult situation!

Boy oh Boy oh Boy! said...

What a sweet little boy! I will pray.

Blessings,
Amy

My Thoughts said...

I've been praying for Kirill for a long time and have continued with an especially strong dedication once his family was dealt their latest blow. I am faithful that the Lord will bring Kirill home to the Davis family. Our family will continue to pray!

Whitney said...

Just prayed for this sweet family.

Carolina said...

Ohh! I've been reading about this all over! On facebook, other blogs, everywhere! I can't beleive she said No! We've been praying and will continue to pray for this little boy and for his family so they can be together soon!!

Nikole Hilton said...

Yes, I will pray! A personal friend of mine is in the same region now visiting her little girl now. Like you said, this case affects the futures of SO many others. Thank you for continued faithful and tireless work of advocacy for these PRECIOUS little ones. As a momma of one, soon to be two blessings with DS, you are an endless support of encouragment and hope! Thanks!!

Tossell Family said...

Praying!!!

Lori said...

I have been praying since you first posted this last week. It is so heartbreaking!!

God is SO BIG and able to move the most impossible mountains.

I stand in agreement with you, friend!

Freedom Hollow Farmgirl said...

Count me in. I will be fasting for this sweet little guy and his family tomorrow.

Storming the gates of heaven right along side you and the rest of my brothers and sisters in Christ for this little guy.

blessings,
Suzanne

Natalie said...

"They are precious in his sight"... I will be praying!

christina herr said...

I will pray for your family. When I read your story about your boy yes that's your beautiful boy it mad me cry to see how caring your family is I promise I will keep your family in my prayers.

Monique said...

My prayers go out to this little boy and his family. I was so shcoked when I heard about this situation. Love to them and much hope they shall conquer.

Mom2many said...

God is Greater and Stronger than any powers of darkness and He is able to do abundantly more than we ask or hope for, especially in situations like this. Praying and believing that this family WILL be brought together and God will be glorified in the process. Keep the Faith dear ones, I know first hand that He is able as a mommy to 12 beautiful miracles.

Dardi said...

Our God is in the business of relocating mountains...I pray in agreement with so many that God would show His mighty hand & that He alone would be glorified through the life of this little boy & his family. Thanks for posting.

Katie said...

Thank you for raising awareness for this sweet family - I cannot imagine their pain.

Miss Lila said...

Adeye,
Is there something else we can do too like write letters to someone or somewhere? I have prayed and prayed for this little angel and then I'll read another blog about him and I'll get angry again and then I start praying again. I'll write letters to someone till I'm blue in the face if I have to.
Please let us know. My heart is so sad.

Miss Lila in Atlanta
lilahuggins@gmail.com

Anonymous said...

This family will not be alone in battle. We will join the many praying for their little boy to be able to come home.
Shauna

Looking Up said...

Joining you in prayer.....Our God is greater......He is higher than any other....including that judge.

Suzanne said...

Praying Kirill home!!!
Without ceasing,
Suzanne

Amy said...

I will be praying for this family. We waited 4 years to bring our son home from Haiti. Our file was "lost" and had to be redone. Paperwork is painfully slow in Haiti. Our God is a miracle working God.

Scrappy quilter said...

Praying for this whole situation. Our God is a miracle working God and I firmly believe this little one is going to come home with his forever family. I'm praying for the judge too...that she would receive the gift of salvation. Hugs

mncfi said...

Praying with all my heart.

Jo's Corner said...

When I first heard about this Judge, I began to Pray that she (and everyone involved with the decision making process), would be overcome by the Power of the Holy Spirit! That they would not realize what hit them! And, that hearts and minds would change. That they would come to know the Love and Grace of our Jesus. I think of Kirill and his family continuously and Pray. And, when I think of them, I see T (mom) sitting next to Jesus, holding Kirill on her lap. They are wrapped in a blue quilt and He has His arm around T's shoulder. I will continue to Pray for this special little boy and his family.

Candy said...

Joining the throngs in praying for this precious little boy. Our God is greater.

Anonymous said...

I am Praying for all involved!!

Sarah

Amy said...

Yes!!! We will stand with this family and FIGHT the giant in the Name of the LORD!

Anonymous said...

Praying. Could the judge be shown your website to see how well down syndrome children can do in a family?

Wendy said...

I was moved to tears. Our God is able! I blogged about it on my blog:
lankfordlegacy.blogspot.com Keep us posted!

Redeemed1 said...

Praying!!

Cari said...

praying that God "shows off" in this little boys life! what a precious child who definitely MUST be with this his family.

Anonymous said...

unbelievable! the judge needs to be put in jail. I will pray to God that you are granted the love from a wonderful little boy krill. my granddaughter has a very rare form of down syndrome and she is no less deserving of a loving family because of it. God bless you all
Donna

Pam said...

DH & I just spent time together praying. I also FB'd this so the word will get out.

Anonymous said...

I know that the LORD is great, that our Lord is greater than all gods.
Psalm 135:5

Anonymous said...

crying......and praying

Annie said...

I have been praying Adeye!!!! This just breaks my heart, but as you said, He can move mountains and I am faithful and trusting!!!

Sophie said...

I just prayed for this family. The Lord's might will prove victorious in this battle.
What a precious boy.

Sally-Girl! said...

Praying for this child of God and for our Father to change the judge's heart!

Marinda said...

Count me in!!

Familie Moerkerken said...

Dear friend, you make me cry again today... this little fellow has the right to have a family. I just send a message to all of my friends to pray, the only thing we can from so far away...

a friend from holland, Carla

Catalina said...

Have posted about him on my blog, and have and will be continuing to pray.

Aus said...

Of course we'll pray - and help spread the word!

hugs - aus and co.

Karis said...

Definitely praying!

Annette said...

Adeye, I'm so thankful for your blog and your heart for orphans. I check it several times each week for updates. I will definitely pray that this child will soon be with his family and that his story will open the doors for more adoptions. "The king's heart is in the hand of the LORD; he directs it like a watercourse wherever he pleases." Proverbs 21:1

Karin said...

Standing in prayer with you for this precious little boy and his family. I believe God will make a way--and in the storm, many people will see the worth of this precious child's life--and will be moved deeply, and changed forever.

Rachel said...

Un-stinking-believable story. Praying.

Patti said...

The Rice family will not stop praying for Kirill!! I asked Lily's readers to pray as well..I am thrilled to see this family getting so much support- thank you, Adeye for always encouraging people to pray.
Lots of love to yoU!!

Kim said...

Joining in prayer... Our God can and will do what seems the impossible! May this precious family be joined together soon!

Charissa said...

Yes, I will be praying. So heartbreaking but we know He can do the impossible!

The Sanchez Family said...

I am brought to tears EVERY SINGLE TIME I read about this story. I'm devastated. So so so sad. PLEASE GOD hear our prayers.

Shelly said...

Praying with tears and awaiting the Lord's deliverance!

Susan said...

I was just telling my family about this precious child and his family at our dinner table last night. I had read about this very sad situation on facebook yesterday. We are praying like crazy here in Boston.

EVERY child deserves a family:)

Warm hugs........Susan from Boston

debbie said...

I am joining you in prayer for this precious child of God. He will intervene!

Anonymous said...

My heart goes out to this grieving family! This must hurt like nothing else. My I propose a thought from another angle? I believe God works through authorities, and while I too would appeal, it would be with "Thy will be done." It's possible that this precious soul has been so wounded by abuse and neglect that all the love this family can give him will not bring him back from darkness. I watched something similar happen recently; it's very sad. Of course God's arm is not shortened, He can still yet deliver this friend of mine from her darkness...but, oh people, be careful what you beg for. 1 Sam 8, 2 Kings 20

Anonymous said...

I have a grandson with Down Syndrum and by living in a loving family he has matured and is a delight to be around. I have prayed for God to intervene in this adoption and that God will receieve all the glory from this situation.

Heart and Hands Int'l Ministries said...

Have traveled in some former Soviet Union Countries... mindsets change slowly. The judge is already in a prison of her own scope of limited thinking, she dare not hope in possibilities in her mind. She needs to be set free,and only Jesus can do that!
I read where one of your readers asked if the judge couldn't be shown your website. I say go 1 step beyond and show her living, breathing families that have embraced their challenged child with love and bravery and strength and courage AND good results!
I have a friend who adopted an autistic child. She was told he would be a troubled/troublesome vegetable basically. Today he is a young man in his 20's. He is friendly, outgoing, inquisitive, holds down some kind of job, has his own checkbook and car. Does he still bear traces of his beginnings? Yes he has his "odd" moments. The professionals told my friend he'd be better off in an institution also. But instead he loves Jesus with all of his heart and KNOWS what that means. He also can give and receive love and interact with others. That is a miracle for sure. My friend spoke the Word of God over him continually and stood for his healing, and received what she believed for! God is NO Respecter of persons.
Hmmm,,, maybe Sarah Palin would take her family to this country and share about her son's life! Any takers out there to do that?
I don't have quite the same situation, although our two sons are adopted, both are now grown. (One from Uganda and one from Nigeria.)
When God gives you a child at any age it is a GIFT and a trust! God Bless. I will forward the request for prayer to my list of pray-ers also.

Nancy

Anonymous said...

Lord God please bring this beautiful child of yours home!

Doretta said...

praying here in Maryland. I have been blessed by adoption for our family and know the struggles. Will be fighting the spiritual battle for you.

Doretta said...

praying here in Maryland.. I have been blessed by adoption for our family and know the struggles.. fighting the spiritual battle with you.

Anonymous said...

Praying in Nebraska!

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