January 22, 2010

our big news

Okay, okay, okay.  I just about died laughing at all your guesses yesterday.  You guys are the best!

Sorry for the suspense.  Although, it was a whole lot of fun.

:)

Well, never in my life did I ever imagine the Lord would take me down this road.  Ever!

You see, for years I had my life all planned out.  I knew exactly what I wanted. Nice house, a plentiful supply of money, a fabulous career, and two kids.

Perfect!

Then God got a hold of my heart...and changed me from the inside out.  The nice house, plentiful supply of money, fabulous career and the two kid idea went out of the window. WAY out of the window.

Because here we are, my dear friends, about to become a family of nine.  Yep--that would be seven kids.  Not six, but seven.  And we could not be more thrilled.  We feel blessed beyond words that God had a better plan for our family. 

Our journey actually began the day we saw Hailee's picture...we saw the face of another angel too.  A sweet little princess.  The Lord had confirmed almost immediately that we were meant to bring Hailee home, that was easy...but what about this other sweet treasure?  We just were not sure.  For months and months we have not been sure.  And so we did the only thing we know to do...we prayed with ALL our hearts, trusting the Lord to lead and guide us.

We waited.  And we waited some more. 

It would have been the easiest thing in the world to just let the whole idea go.  Trust God to bring another family for her, and forget about it.  It's easy to do that.  And in my flesh, I have tried to just let it go many times.  Too many times.  But there are times when, as Christians, we are NOT meant to just sweep things under the rug and let them go.  We're called to do MORE.

This has been one of those times.  Sophia (her name in the orphanage) would not go away.

We prayed.

We prayed some more.

We cried out to God and asked Him to show us clearly what our role was.

Every now and then we hold in our hands the power to change someone's life.  Never in our own strength, but by the leading of the Holy Spirit.  There are occasions when we have the opportunity to make a profound difference in the life of another human being--whether it be a child, an elderly person or anyone else.  God just gives us those incredible opportunities to be His hands and feet on this earth.  The test is whether we are obedient to actually do it, or not.  I have failed the test more times than I care to admit.

Obedience is everything to us.  Everything!

We realized, after much prayer, that God has given us the most amazing opportunity to change the destiny of not one, but two little girls lives.  We could choose to tell the Lord, "No thank you,  it's just too hard, Lord, send someone else".  Or, we could choose to trust Him every step of the way--knowing that He promises us He will never put us in a situation we cannot handle.

That's exactly what we're choosing to do...trust our amazing God. It is with absolute confidence that I can say that God has never, not once, ever let our family down.

And He's not about to now.

The Father has been very clear about something regarding Sophia...she absolutely has to come home with us.  No doubt about it.  Yes, she will be such an enormous blessing to our family--but there is more to it.  Hailee NEEDS this sister.  They cannot be separated.  This is a sister that Hailee is going to need in her life.  Of that we are positive.  Sophia cannot be left behind!

And so, dear friends, God has called us to walk on the water once again. 

Are we afraid?  I'd be lying if I said we weren't a little afraid.

Do we know what to expect on the day we are handed two little girls with down syndrome?  We have absolutely no idea.

But there is one thing we do know with absolute certainty...the Living God has spoken!  He has told us what to do, and we're going to do it...no matter what the consequences are. No matter how hard it is. No matter what trials may await us around the corner. No matter that we have to raise an additional $4000 to bring Sophia home. No matter who may disagree with our decision (and gladly tell us about it). It just does not matter to us. THE LORD GOD HAS SPOKEN!

In our weakness, He WILL be strong.  In our inability to parent them, He WILL show us the way.  In our times of confusion and doubt, He WILL show Himself faithful. He will, He will, He will.

And that, my friends, is all we really need to know as we journey this road.  He is truly all we need.

So, I know this is the part you really want... meet the new addition to our family.  Precious as can be, and already loved and treasured beyond words...

Isn't she just absolutely beautiful?



We are so in love. Smitten!

We'll be sure to let you know as soon as we name this treasure.

Thank you for journeying with me.  Your support and encouragement means the world to my family.

Life is about to become a whole lot more exciting! So wonderful.

With much hope and praise to Him who sits upon the throne,
Adeye

51 sweet thoughts from friends:

quilt-n-mama said...

Hooray!!!!!!!!!!!!
I actually noticed the other picture on Reece's Rainbow site and I was pretty sure but couldn't wait to hear! I am so excited for you all and praying for you!
Blessings,
Gayly

Tony and Rett said...

I must say...I had only figured it out with the help of Sarah... but friend, I'm so glad you shared the news today!

She is just simply amazing. Your family will be beyond blessed! We're blessed just being a small part of the journey!

Now, on with it! The name, tha name! I'm name obsessed!

Love you, friend! Congratulations!

Angie said...

Unbelievable! God is amazing...you guys are an amazing family. Thank you for posting this AM...I was going crazy wondering how some had figured it out and I hadn't! Congratulations and I can't wait to read more and more wonderful news!

Barbra said...

Jumping up and down excited over here! Wow!
He is big enough!!!
Barbra

Gary and Michelle said...

Thank you for not keeping us waiting any longer :)

Congratulations. That is wonderful news. I know God will provide - in ALL areas for you. I am just so excited for you - I am fighting to keep the tears back.

Do you have any idea of when you may be able to bring your girls home?

Oh, and another question how old is Sophia?

Michelle

Amy said...

Bawling my eyes out right now... God is SO GOOD and I am for one blessed by YOU and the way you live your life. Thank you my friend. I am honored to 'know' you. Love, Amy

Launi said...

What amazing news!! I was kinda right. Adoption is kind of like pregnancy, right? ;) Congratulations again and I can't wait to hear what you guys decide to name her! ♥

Anna said...

Sophie looks absolutetly beautiful and she´ll definetly be a blessed addition to your already wonderful family. I can´t wait to see Hailee and Sophie together with their siblings :)

The Urbans said...

Wow! You amaze me. Congratulations.

blessedmomto8 said...

HOW AWESOME! Love her name! CONGRATS MAMA! SO EXCITED for you!

Kristin Ferguson said...

Can't wait to hear what name God lays on your heart for this beautiful sweetheart.

Kristin

Mom Of Many said...

Iknew it!! Thrilled to pieces for all of you...what a treasure - and she is absolutely beautiful!! Yippee Jesus!! xo

Dardi said...

I'm all choked up!! Not just for your news, but also the encouragement in your words. Thanks for sharing... I needed it today.

Chris and Sarah said...

I went straight to RR to figure it out last night. So exciting! Want to move to Indiana so I can help ya out some???

soontobemomof9 said...

LOL... well, I was sure this would happen anyway. :) I am SO happy for you!

FYI... one does tend to have a slight "freak out" moment when one realizes that they have "twins" coming home together to an already busy household. But the good news is it is just a "slight freak out moment". LOL

christy rose said...

Oh my goodness! You are absolutely amazing! I can't wait to hear her name!

Holly said...

I am just in absolute AWE of God right now. What blessings lay ahead of you because you said YES.
love,
Holly

Lori said...

Well, I had a *feeling* that was it...and I'm so glad I was right!! WOOO HOOO!!!!! That is the best news I've heard all day!!

Rejoicing with you, sweet friend!

BIG TIME REJOICING!!!

Chris said...

I must be very slow...what a surprise! Congratulations...when God calls...
The other day some one told me they had heard we are adopting 2 at once, I didn't know anything about it...if God told this lady before she told me I'm a little miffed...we shall see.

allisyn said...

oh mmy goodness!!!! congrats!!!! this is beyond AWESOME :)

Andrea said...

LOL I KNEW that's what the 7 meant! ;o) Love it Love it Love it!!! Praise God for you and your willing heart. SO excited for you all. ;o) Oh I am hopping up and down.. good thing I am the only one in the office at the moment! ;o)

Ginny said...

She is quite simply stunning. Congratulations Mommy. I think I want to be you when I grow up.

Mama in Uganda said...

Now I "see" what I was praying for!!!!! She too is absolutely gorgeous. When will you be able to go and snatch up these two treasures. Joyfully praising in Uganda. Summer

Shonni said...

She is beautiful dear friend...we love you all and are continuing in prayer for your family!
loves,
Shonni

Tara said...

Adeye, SOOO excited for you and this little blessing as well!!! I have to confess....I went and peeked at the R.R. site last night because I couldn't wait until today to find out:) I thanked and praised God right then! How He is moving and working in your lives is absolutely amazing and beautiful!!! Pleae share more about how you knew Hailee needed her...I love details! Love your family and your blog!!!!

tara

Sean and Lisa said...

Awesome news!! Another child coming home to a family.....such a blessing!!

Praying for you each step of the way and what a beautiful addition to your family!!

Cari said...

she is simply beautiful, Adeye! what awesome news!! oh, to someday see your new family picture...can hardly wait! :)

Mom to 9 Blessings! said...

OK WOW!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

YES GOD WILL PROVIDE!

YES GOD REWARDS OBEDIENCE!

YES GOD WILL ROCK YOUR WORLD ONCE AGAIN THROUGH THIS ADOPTION!

and your family will never be the same!

Lovin' you and praying wonderful things to come!

Jill

Sophie Neri said...

Oh Adeye
I'm so moved beyond words. What an amazing act of love and faith in the Lord. Even though I don't know you in person I'm so happy that our paths have crossed in the blog world because you are truly an inspiration. I'm thrilled for you and will keep you and your family in my prayers. She is beautiful, congratulations! P.S. love the name!

Jean said...

WOW!! That is so wonderful!! She is beautiful! Such a precious little girl! I thought this might be it BUT then "I thought how could that be?" Well, I know how it could be- our wonderful =dear Lord guided you right to this treasure! What fun you all will have!!

Lynsay said...

Oh my goodness! I'm so excited, so amazed and jumping for joy...and I'm totally in love!!

She is completely beautiful....just like your whole family! Congratulations!!! Can't wait to see more!

Love yoU!

connie said...

Oh, sweet Adeye, I'm so filled with joy for you! What an enormous, beautiful blessing. You just keep trusting Him. You are absolutely right, He never fails us! NEVER! Thrilled beyond words!!!!

Karin said...

OH MY GOODNESS!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! I am so happy for you (and for Sophia)!! CONGRATULATIONS!!! She is absolutely beautiful!

Excited to hear what God lays on your heart for her name. How old is she?

I love the amazing adoption stories that God writes. They are just beyond COOL!

Sally- That Girl! said...

So happy to have found your blog to follow this amazing journey! I think God may be taking us down the same path. We are patiently waiting for His will to be known and then we will follow.

Loving you my sister in Christ!

JJ said...

Adeye, I'm so excited for you and your family. She is beautiful and so is Hailee. So when are they coming home? I can't wait for that awesome news.

The Thomasson's said...

What wonderful news! I was so excited to read the update today! WOW! So excited for you!

Can't wait to hear here sweet name!

trustandobey said...

Wow! Am I the last to read your amazing post today??? Congratulations to you and your family and to Sophia! Twins!!! When are they arriving??? So glad to know you!!!
Lisa

Lisa said...

Wow. That is so wonderful and amazing! Praise God!

Mandi said...

Oh Adeye, she's beautiful. I am so happy for you and your family. You are such an inspiration to me in so many ways. I thank God for sending me to your blog day after day.

And yes you are right, Hailee does need THIS sister. They need each other.

I cannot wait to see you bring them home. Do you have any idea of when you might travel???

Holly said...

How old is she Adeye?

Tami said...

You scamp...letting everyone hang like that! I knew...saw on RR yahoo group that Sophia had found a family and I just knew it was you! She and Hailee will be great sisters, everyone should have a special someone to grow up with. If I could take two, you better believe I would...in a heartbeat...but, we cannot.

Tami said...

Name idea...Hope. Fits, doesn't it? Say them together...Hailee and Hope. Sounds good!

Janine Robinson said...

She is so beautiful my friend. I remember the very first e-mail you sent me when you discovered them both. I praise God for your obedient hearts. I can't wait to hear all about Sophia! Her name is so soft and beautiful. She looks like such a darling. Lord Jesus please make a make for me to come and see my special friend and all these precious Kingdom Warriors!!! Love you xoxoxox

Anonymous said...

WOW! She is beautiful! What a blessed little angel she is! Congratulations!

Melinda said...

Awesome news Adaye!!!! I am so happy for you and for your new little guy. He is precious!!!!

Melinda said...

Ok, hopefully you don't post my other comment, I meant SHE is precious, not he. Sorry! I am so happy for you guys!!!!

Kathy said...

Oh I am so excited for you and
your family! She is beautiful!!!
When we walk in obedience we are
so blessed.
You are going to be doubly blessed!
The Lord gave me this scripture when
He had put on our hearts to adopt our
first daughter from China.

This is love for God: to obey His commands,
And His commands are not burdensome.
1 John 5:3

Hugs!

MamaPoRuski said...

She is beautiful! Congratulations!

Annie said...

Oh Adeye!!!! I had no idea!! I have been offline all week and to open your blog for the first time and see this beautiful news is just incredible!!! I am crying tears of joy for you and your beautiful family!!!!! How blessed you are!!

Rachel said...

Thrilled :). Now give us details!!!

Anonymous said...

Congratulations, what wonderful news. Praying for you all. Luv Janelle

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