June 23, 2010

doing something

Oh my goodness, reading through your comments on my last post has been so moving for Anthony and me. To hear the cries of so many hearts which are broken for orphans touches my heart. If only these children knew how many people are bringing them before the throne of God in prayer.

I have had so many requests for more information on the precious ones I posted. I'm making my way through each and every email and responding as fast as I can.

I am thrilled to tell you that three of the children in my post are now listed on Reeces Rainbow.  My amazing friend, Andrea Roberts, got onto it fast and by the end of the day had as much information that she needed to list them.  They are listed here under "other angels." 



This is Yulia and she is just as precious as can be.  She has CP.  Oh how she will blossom and grow in a family. She is such a sweet and tender little love.

This young man is Yuri, and he is also now listed on Reeces Rainbow.  Yuri also has mild CP.  He is the cutest little boy with such a sweet nature.  I felt so bad for him because I just knew that he so desperately wanted OUT of that crib. He cried just because he wanted me to pick him up.  Yuri should NOT be in that room. He is smart and has such potential to learn and grow.



And I told you already that sweet little Wade is also listed--under the Down syndrome waiting children.

Thank you, Andrea, for working so insanely hard to give these children an opportunity to find their forever families. You're wonderful.

Many of you have commented and emailed me asking what can be done for children such as these.  What is our role as the Body of Christ?  For me, it is very simple.  With all my heart I believe that we can all do something.  Not out of some obligation--but simply because the Bible COMMANDS us to care for the orphans.  The Bible does not call some to care for orphans.  It does not say that God will lead the chosen few to fulfill the mandate.  Nope--we are all commanded to get involved.

Does that means we should all adopt a child?  No, not necessarily. I completely understand that there are seasons in our lives when we just cannot adopt.  I know that for many it is just not possible.  I am always struck by just how many people there are who are longing, with all their hearts, to bring a child home, but are in a place where it is impossible. Why is it that those who so desperately want to do something about the orphan crisis cannot?  How I long for that not to be the case for so many. One thing I have learned in my walk with God is that He never gives us dreams and desires for no reason.  They are planted in our hearts by Him for a reason.  If you're longing to bring home your next child, but waiting on Him to work out your circumstances, hang on tight and trust Him on the journey.  He'll will bless you with the desire of your hearts--He's just so good like that. 

Oh, and about the adoption thing--I do think that everyone should at least inquire of the Lord if they are to adopt or not.  His answer may just surprise you.

If we cannot adopt a child there are still so many ways we can get involved. Praying is easy and we all know that the Father hears every plea we make on behalf of orphans.  Give, give, and give some more!  Give to others who are adopting.  Sponsor a child on Reeces Rainbow--there are way too many angels on there with zero in their grant fund.  I hate that.  I can tell you that every dollar donated is seed for someone's adoption.  The Lord multiplies it ALL.  We have raised about $100K to adopt four children.  Some of the donations were large and others were small.  Every $10 gift the Lord used as seed to grow.  Since so many of you have asked, I will share a post on our fundraising soon. 

Organize a mission to an orphanage. While I was in the Ukraine I posted that there was a group of Danish high schoolers serving at the orphanage.  They worked hard on the grounds, played with children in the playgrounds, blew up balloons, dressed up like clowns, and took babies for walks in strollers. I asked about whether there had ever been a church group come and do similar things.  My answer was "no."  Oh dear--something about that just felt so wrong to me. Missions are so easy to organize.  Orphanages are desperate for volunteers to come.  It is such an incredible way to love on children and leave them with memories they will never forget. A short-term mission is an easy way to give of ourselves to orphans.

Host an "Orphan Sunday" in your church to bring an awareness to your congregation.

Or, use the social networks to spread the word.  Facebook, blogs, Twitter--they are all incredible ways to get the word out to friends and family.  I am absolutely convinced that part of the reason the Body of Christ is not doing more for orphans is because they don't know about the desperate need. So many churches don't have orphan ministries. Become a voice for those who don't have one--there are so many ways to do it these days.

Anything we do helps.  It does not have to only be the big things. I think that so often we feel like we are only going to make a difference when we do the large things--but that is so not true.  God can use us in any situation to get the word out there. It only takes one conversation in the check-out line of the grocery store to plant the seed in someone's heart.  God can use us anywhere, anyhow and any time He pleases.


Any other ideas as to how the Church can get involved?  Is there something I missed? I'd love to hear your ideas about what we can all do to create an awareness about the sweet children who wait...and wait...and wait.

So thankful tonight that the Lord Jesus Christ is alive and well, and more than able to carry each and every burden on our hearts.

19 sweet thoughts from friends:

Goodness and Mercy Mom said...

Adeye, oh what joy to see that these children are already listed on Reece's Rainbow. (Thank you, Andrea Roberts!) We're prayerfully considering several children on that site--if only we could take them all.

Yuri, Yulia, and Wade all have a chance now because of your obedience to adopt Hailee and Harper. My prayer is that soon there will be only empty beds in "that room."

Much Love,
Kathie

Mama D.'s Dozen said...

So glad that people are responding ... that things are being done. So glad that the Lord has chosen you to be a voice for these precious ones who have no one to hear their faint cries for help.

My 17 y.o. son just walked in, and I took the opportunity to tell him Hailee's story, and to share ALL of your pics from the past 2 months. Powerful! I could tell that his heart was touched.

I have such a heart for these precious ones. However, my time and energy is so very drained by my young lady from Ghana (who suffers from RAD). As the Mama of a dozen children, I just can't picture bringing another one home. But ... I am praying about some BIG ways that the Lord might open some doors for us to help others who are seeking to adopt. Very much praying about the BIG things the Lord has put on my heart.

Love you!

Laurel :)

Gary and Michelle said...

Yes, we are waiting. I wish I was more patient ;) But you are right Adeye, there are so many ways we can continue to be involved while we wait.

Pray, give, share - I think you said it so well

Michelle

Helen, UK said...

I have been following your blog for a while now, although i have never commented before.
I just wanted to tell you that i have found your blog, and indeed you, truly inspirational, and would love to organise a short term mission to the orphanage...although i do not have any idea of how to even begin planning this. if anyone can help with any information that would be greatly appreciated.

Aus said...

Church involvement is - in fact - what started our road to adoption....when a Priest who had been a part of the 'underground' in China described the need after a service one Sunday back in '01....nine years later we've got 3 more kids....and interestingly He spoke to our oldest daughter, who simply asked me while I was cooking breakfast (a family tradition - dad cooks brunch after services) - "Dad, you and mom talked about having a big family. Why didn't you adopt any kids after mom couldn't have any more?" My answer to here was simple - "Honey - it never crossed my mind". Marie jumped up - "you mean you aren't opposed?" "No sweet - I just never really thought about it - if you want to look into it go ahead". That was all it took to get it started! And - as you well know - once it's started it takes a life of its own!

hugs - aus and co.

Sophie said...

Dearest Adeye,
You have such a loving and compassionate heart and I love how the Lord is using you to be the voice for these precious children.
{{hugs}}

Andrea said...

I love your heart. I also love how God uses each person to make a difference in the lives of others...if we only just listen.
Thank you for listening.
Blessings to you my friend!
Andrea

Freedom Hollow Farmgirl said...

Hello Adeye and Anthony~
Our time has come! The Lord touched my heart for the orphans of China 12 years ago, its our time now to bring home our first little one!! We've just started working with our homestudy agency. We've found a precious little special needs boy on the CCAA list that has stolen our hearts. We have no idea where the finances will come from, but we are believing our Abba Father will provide.

I am looking forward to reading your post on fundraising.

Blessings,
Suzanne Devine

Anna said...

I forgot to comment on last post but it broke my heart in a million little pieces. Thank you Adeyé for being a voice to those beautiful children and encouraging us to action.

Anonymous said...

I have shared Reece's Rainbow on my Facebook and encouraged others to spread the word. You are right, if one mind is opened to the plight of these children, it will be a great success. I hope your little angels are doing well

bdnp3827 said...

shoe drives... older kids are always in need of shoes!!!!

Sponsor an orphan...send money to someone reliable on the field to purchase needed supplies for a child.

I work at an orphanage with older kids... many who will soon "graduate" from the program. These kids are also some that are lost in the system. At 16, many are sent out in the world to function as adults with NO skills to do so. It breaks my heart to see both ends of this spectrum.... those that are lost to the system because of some "handicap" and those that age out of the system.

I do know that every little gesture helps!!!! Andrea is doing great work and is a friend of mine. She has a great organization. Thanks for the spotlight on her!!!!

In His Hope,
Becky DeWett
Kyiv, Ukraine

Anonymous said...

I needed to do something, I had to do something..I prayed, oh did I pray. For right now I will dontate money to help sponsor a child and when the time is right we WILL adopt from Reece's Rainbow!

Bless you

trustandobey said...

I agree with you 100%, Adeye!
There are so many ways that the Body of Christ can support orphans without adopting. However, I agree ,too, that adoption is first and foremost a priority of the Church. I have never believed it to be a calling...but a command by God to His people. In Biblical history, the Israelites were responsible for providing for these 2 groups of people: the widows and the orphans. There were no questions asked. God commanded it and expected it as His way of providing for their needs. I doubt if people were sitting around telling one another that they didn't feel called to give. They may have not obeyed , but they knew they were skirting God's mandate.
Instead of waiting for God to burn a bush in someone's backyard as a signal for them to adopt, I wish the Body of Christ would just walk forward in obedience and allow God to stop them if He had another idea in mind. I just cannot help but think that there would no longer be 143 million unwanted children....
Lisa

Annie said...

Oh Adeye!!! My heart just breaks over and over again when I think about those left behind and those who will never have the love of a family. I do not think you can go and see those beautiful faces and not be forever changed. I will never forget our visit to Lizzie's orphanage and the faces of all those precious children. That is why I have started to use my blog to advocate. How can I not??

Anonymous said...

I have fallen in love with a little girl on Reece's Rainbow. I think of her all day and so badly want to bring her home. Sadly my husbands heart has yet to be opened up to adoption. For now I plan to donate as much as I can to her grant and educate people as much as I can for the need of these special children. Hoping that someday God will speak to my husband as has me, or she will find her Forever Family. Thank you for being an angel to these children.

babyarnie said...

Adeye,
Thank you for your servants heart. Like you, my husband and I LONG to do something about the orphan crisis. We miss Ukraine after adopting our daughter from their in Sept. Although we are not able to adopt again..... yet.... we are constantly praying God will show us how we are to help. Thank you for getting the word out. Thank you for taking the ones that no one else wants or values and shows the world what love & nutrition will do. Our daughter Laurel gained 8 lbs and 5 1/2" in just 6 months. They ARE worth it!!! Yes, it is hard but Oh so very worth it. And who said following Jesus was easy anyway??

Lindsay said...

I am so touched by what you have shared about the orphanages over there. I came upon your blog by accident......but maybe it was no accident after all? I feel something stirring inside of me. I want to help, but I'm not sure what I am being called to do. The calling is there though, for sure. I have a brother in law who has Downs and he is the love of our lives. He is very attached to my husband and I, and is just such a special guy.
I am wondering if you can give some advice on where to begin?? My husband has a great job and I am a SAHM to our wonderful 1 yr old baby girl. We definitely do not have the money to do this....but I have no doubt that we could raise it. Please, any information you can give would be helpful.

Sally-Girl! said...

Ni Hao from China!!!

Great ideas on various ways to help orphans!! And Reece's Rainbow is just an incredible ministry. it's how we found our daughter!!

I will pray for those precious faces you shared and the others not captured on camera!

Anonymous said...

Inspired by you and other adoptive parents I have decided that while I cannot adopt right now, I can make a difference. I am working to organize my church and other churches in my community to "adopt" one of the poorer orphanages in Ukraine (on Reece Rainbow it is Orphanage #9). Andrea directed me to Life2Orphanse (www.life2orphanes.com) which works to provided Ukrainian orphanages with the things they need.

Ellen

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