BECAUSE ONE LITTLE BOY HAS A DREAM IN HIS HEART

March 30, 2011

the "I am beautiful" project

Yikes.

The truth is that just a few years ago you would not have had a hope in heaven of seeing a picture of me holding up a sign that says this....



"I am beautiful."

Uh-uh.  There is no way I would have done it.  You could stand on your head and whistle Dixie until the cows come home, and my answer would still be a "No way!"

Simply because, like 99.99% of woman in the world, I too have struggled with the way I look over the years.  Actually, make that present tense....still struggle. 

I've struggled with my weight over the years.  I look in the mirror and don't particularly like what I see.

I'll be 40 on my next birthday--and there is nothing I can do to keep from getting older.  I notice lines that were never there before.  Sometimes I feel insecure about the way I look.  I've done my fair share of comparing myself to other women.

Know what I mean?



But...

Slowly but surely over the years the Lord has been teaching me--that I cannot find my value, my self-worth, and my security in the world.  I cannot. 

I am beginning to get it.  Ever so slowly.  I no longer see myself the way I did years ago.  I choose to see myself as God sees me.  I choose to believe that I am created in His image...just the way I am.  I choose to believe that, even as I am getting older, a woman can be beautiful at any age, because it's the heart that truly counts.

Having a beautiful heart makes any woman beautiful!

That's what I long for.



My dear friend Jill feels the same way.  God has had her on her own journey to see herself as beautiful. 

Jill has started a campaign on her blog.

It's called "I AM BEAUTIFUL."

Jill is encouraging women like you and me to forget about what the world says, to not strive to be something that you aren't, but to ONLY see yourselves as God sees you....

Beautiful.  Inside and out.

Hand-crafted in the image of a God who does ALL things with excellence.

Unique.

Special.

Treasured.



We're all beautiful.....just the way we are.

With our bumps, our flaws, our wrinkles, and our many imperfections. 

We are beautiful women of a mighty God.  And that should be all we need to know.

But there are times when it is a hard truth to get in our hearts.



So my angels and I just had to get in on Jill's project. 

I wanted the world to see that all five of us are beautiful--even though we could not be more different from each other if we tried.

We're special.



We're unique.



We're "fearfully and wonderfully made."

JUST the way we are.



Jill has started a group where women can join in. 

Gather your young ladies and join in on the I AM BEAUTIFUL project. 

Go here to see other BEAUTIFUL faces and upload your own pictures. 



We live in a world gone crazy.  We're bombarded with advertisements, an unrealistic worldview of what true beauty is, and the ever-present media which tells us that we can be more beautiful, younger looking, more attractive...if we just tried this pill, that lotion, or the next best injection to smooth out wrinkles.

It is so constantly in our faces.

The Bible says that beauty is fleeting.  And it is.



I think that the most beautiful women in the world are the ones who love God with everything they have.  The women who radiate the love of Jesus in everything they do.  I think the most stunning beauties are the women who glow simply because they love freely, unconditionally, and with their whole hearts.

That to me is true beauty.

That is what I want.



We're so blessed to join in on Jill's campaign.  We declare into the heavenlies today that WE ARE BEAUTIFUL!  No matter what the world says about us.

We're His beloved daughters.



 
Be blessed in all you do, sweet friends.  Remember that you ARE beautiful!

29 sweet thoughts from friends:

Holly said...

That is awesome!!! I love it, and my daughters and I will be joining this campaign!! Praying and fasting for the situation with the judge today...I know God will come through!

Jill Samter Photography said...

that was a truly beautiful post - no pun intended. i'm so proud of you for declaring who you are in HIM and to HIM! the fact that you are doing it with your daughters now and forever will change the world one young woman at a time. this will have a ripple effect for generations - why BECAUSE GOD IS MOVING IN THE HEARTS OF HIS DAUGHTERS!

Because to Him - we are ALL BEAUTIFUL!

I love you so and thankful for our friendship! What a cherished gift you are to me!
xoxo Jill

Kacey said...

Wow! I love every blog you post, you always seem to know just the right thing to say. And by the way, the pictures are always great too.

Mrs. Howard said...

I have always thought you were stunning, Adeye.

Squiggly Rainbow said...

I needed to read this message. Thank you. Your story amazes me and I have been telling my community about what great things God does in your life.

I had just looked at myself in the mirror before sitting on the computer. I looked at a tired mother of three who has merely swept her hair that is long overdue for a cut into a bun. I felt dowdy - have little energy to 'worldly' beautify myself.

Then - I read this post.
Thankyou to you xo
from Australia - Rachael

Nichole said...

Oh your girls (and you) are so beautiful! The enemy starts so early with the lies.This is something I struggle with so much.

Amber said...

This is a beautiful post! And the pics of you with your girls are so precious!

Kristina said...

This is awesome!
God bless

Lisa (DanielsMommy) said...

What an amazing post. I have to tell you a story. I have an 8 year old daughter who I am trying ever so hard not to let grow up too fast. She's so eager to be a teen and if I allowed, would dress like so many teens do. She is becoming ever so aware of people's 'looks'...and I am trying to instill in her that beauty comes from the inside. A few days ago I got a pretty picture frame and decided to put my engagement photo and newborn pics of each of my children. My daughter for the first time I guess had seen this engagement pic. It was taken in 1991. I was 22 at the time, a beautiful figure, no wrinkes. My husband was also significantly thinner and had a full head of hair. My daughter was SHOCKED. She said Mommy you are so beautiful, why don't you look like that anymore? I took the opportunity to tell her that that picture was taken almost 1/2 my life ago and we don't stay young forever. We had a great conversation about inner beauty and how important it is to be beautiful, caring and loving on the inside. So, to make my long story short....YES, we will be joining in the campaign.

Anonymous said...

Arielle and I think this is wonderful. She just became part of a group for tween girls to remind them of their beauty as daughters of the King.
Love it!
Shauna

connie said...

I LOVE it! And girlfriend, you ARE beautiful!!!!

Mama in Uganda said...

What a BEAUTIFUL project.

I love, love all your precious photos.

Blessings and love,
Summer

Holly said...

Friend,
Thank you for sharing this. It made me cry. Touched a nerve, exposing another LIE I have believed. I linked to your post today though I am not ready to tackle this challenge, I am sure MANY are and needed this encouragement.
Love,
Holly
http://purposedrivenfamily.blogspot.com/2011/03/facing-shears.html

Anonymous said...

Thanks so much for that reminder that God made us who we are and what we look like!! I feel proud of who I am and I want my daughter to as well!! I will be looking at the campaign too, and most likely will be joining it! :)

You are beautiful and because you are, your daughters are too! :)

Tressa

Shari79 said...

I signed up for Twitter yesterday JUST so I could follow Reece's Rainbow!!

And yes, you are beautiful - each and every one of you! I especially loved the photo of all of you together with Haven holding the sign above her head, it deserves a spot on the side bar!

I am going to get myself and my daughters on board with this campaign as well, young girls in today's society need this message soooo much!

*Trini* said...

COOL! Love Harpy and Hailee...

Zo said...

This is a great step towards public awareness of true beauty and values. However, I belive women of all religions and beleifs can be beautiful and it's not something exclusive for followers of Jesus as you mentioned. In my opinion, it is more the question of heart, humanity and how much you care for others and what your values are rather than having a label of Christian, Jew, Muslim, not religious etc. that defines how beautiful you are inside and out.

Anonymous said...

40 shmorty... you LOOK 30! These are gorgeous pictures of gorgeous girls! I love the houses in the background!

Jill from Killeny Glen said...

THIS IS AMAZING! I read through and just felt AMAZED at how you and Jill and others have embraced this as a campaign...so wonderful!

Praying too for Kirill and for Evan...

Michelle said...

What a wonderful post!!! I love that you included your gorgeous daughters in this with you! I love how you're being vocal and learning to see yourself as Jesus sees you -- absolutely beautiful!!

Truthfully -- you do look wonderful, beautiful -- and your girls are adorable!

Thanks so much for your words, and for listening to God's whispers in your heart and sharing them!

~Michelle
(visiting from Jill's blog!)

God's Princess said...

As a 13 year old girl, I really feel the pressure. I don't always like what I see in the mirror. I have a hard time not giving into pressure and wanting to look sexy just to get attention. False attention. Lies. Not what I want. I also compare myself to my sister a lot. Never good:-). God is slowly molding me into seeing myself the way He sees me. Flawlessly gorgeous. I love all of you so much, WE ARE BEAUTIFUL!!
Mattie Patterson (Lorraine's daughter:-)

Anonymous said...

This is wonderful!! We were just talking about this very thing in Bible Study this week. Our culture is SO focused on the outside beauty and neglects to look at the heart. I also think the most beautiful women I know truly radiate His light. And you are one of them!! You truly are beautiful, and I just love your heart.

Annie said...

Amazing, Adeye!

Halie said...

Amazing and most wonderful post! I love every single word, every photo that you posted. Yes, you are blessed with beauty, something not superficial, but deep and true!

Blessings on you and your family. You are all beautiful!

MiJon said...

You are gorgeous...ALL of you! You're such a blessing to read. Thanks.
Micah Jamie

Aus said...

Well - I'll point Marie and the girls that way tonight! In the meantime - and being probably the only guy that comments on your blog - and at the risk of offending Anthony (whom I consider a friend - we'd get along GREAT IRL - if ever we'd meet) - I assure you that you and all of your girls are absolutely beautiful inside and out!

hugs - great project - and absolutly something that is missing for women in todays world!

aus and co.

Jo's Corner said...

This is one (ONE) of my very Favorite posts you've done, Adeye! Every single photo is BEAUTIFUL! And, what a wonderful idea! I MAY just do it myself!
P.S. I need your address! I have something to send for your Giveaway and also a very Treasured belonging of mine that I want YOU to have! : )
I believe you have my email. Or you can send your mailing address to me in a Private Message on FB!
Love You Salem Family!! ~ Auntie Jo

Lisa said...

I love this post and the timing is perfect for me. I am a few years older than you and I just recently realized my standards for beauty have changed - for myself and other people. I finally feel comfortable in my own skin (yay!) and I see beauty in smiles, laughter, joy... not body shapes or "hollywood" looks. I regret the years I ever thought otherwise.

Janine said...

Awesome post my friend. I needed to read this this morning. And YES - you are so very beautiful ... inside and out! Love ya friendy xxx