I have many flaws. Many, many flaws. For anyone who comes here and reads this little blog of mine there are countless things that you can and will find wrong with me. Perhaps you disagree with me on certain issues. Or, maybe you see life differently to the way I do. Or, perhaps some of the stuff I blog about is quite offensive to you. So be it.
I am a flawed human being.
~~ My spelling is atrocious. My grammar is even worse. I am not a writer, nor any kind of academic.
~~ I mention God in most posts-and talk about Him A LOT. He’s my everything, the reason that I live.
~~ My photographs are totally amateurish-not anywhere close to being perfect blogging material. Whatever!
~~ I share my heart openly and honestly-and many disagree.
~~ I am PRO LIFE in every sense of the word. Many are not.
~~ At home I get annoyed at my kids. I say some unkind things to my husband.
~~ I can never, ever seem to get on top of my inbox. Responding to every person who writes to me is humanly impossible. I fail.
~~ On and on the faults go. I am flawed. So very flawed.
Yup, there sure are many things that you can disagree with me on. And many do. Some respectfully. Others not at all. I don’t care if anyone disagrees with me. It’s the nature of the business-have a public blog, anticipate the criticism. A respectful disagreement would be nice but is often not the case.
I do not blog to get anyone’s approval. That would be a lost cause and I would end up with a major inferiority complex. You can give me your best shot anytime. Like sticks and stones, words will never harm me. I know who I am in Christ.
I don’t get my knickers in a knot over people who have nothing better to do than find fault. Trust me, you really don’t have to look too far to find it in me.
BUT.
There is a line that I draw when accusations, evil, and demeaning comments are directed at anyone in my family other than me or my husband. That crosses a line that should never be crossed. Children should never be part of the deal. Ever. ESPECIALLY the ones who have no voice, the ones who cannot stand up for themselves.
A few nights ago I posted a sweet little video with our beautiful Hailee in it. I know that many, many of you saw it. If you did not…it was a video of Anthony playing with Hailee on the sofa while my other children played in the background. Hailee is laughing like crazy while Anthony lovingly asks her where her “sticks” are. Her sticks being her skinny little legs. Every time he asked her, she burst into the sweetest laughter.
Innocent stuff. Just a little angel love who has come such a very long way in eight short months of being home. Just her proud mommy and daddy showing the world how amazingly well she has done.
I went to bed, not thinking twice about it.
Oh my goodness gracious, the following morning I was greeted with some not-so-very-nice comments. People who took it upon themselves to say mean and evil things. Simply because they could. Anthony and I were speechless. Didn’t we just post a video of a very happy little girl playing with her Daddy? What was the deal? And why the opinions/comments/criticisms of the kids playing in the background?
What in the world? How could anybody possibly look at a little girl who has lived five years of hell on earth and say miserable things? How? What the heck is wrong with people? Seriously? Why can’t they just direct their hatred toward me instead of my children. Really, say something mean to me personally if it makes them feel better.
Truthfully, I ache for my children. I really do. There are no words to describe what it does to my mommy heart when this stuff happens. To know that this is the kind of stuff they will have to deal with for the rest of their lives…oh my.
This blogging experience and sharing my children who have special needs has really been an eye opener for me. Perhaps I lived in this isolated little Christian bubble before I did this blogging thing? Maybe I was so naive?
So naturally I removed the video as fast as I could. The first post I have ever removed like that. Not because I wanted too. I really did want to share Hailee’s joy with those of you who have followed her journey for so many months. I removed it because I will protect my daughter fiercely, with everything I have, until the day I die. Anthony and I are IT. We are all she has in this life. We are her voice until she finds hers. And even then, we will speak for her when she needs us. Hailee will probably live with us until the day that Jesus takes one of us home. That is our reality and we are more than fine with it.
I am learning that there is a very fine line to walk with blogging. How much do I share? How honest can/should I be?
I LONG to see many, many more children come home…but at what cost to my own children?
I just don’t know the answer to that question.
I only know that there is a line that should never, ever, never, ever be crossed by anyone when it comes to children who have special needs. They should never be criticized, judged, labeled, name-called or anything that resembles any kind of hatred. It is a no-go zone!
I been thinking about something a lot recently. I have been so quick with an answer in the past. Too quick. I have thought that I had the whole thing all figured out when it comes to “special needs” in other countries. We have been asked countless times about our daughters’ countries and the way things are there. My answer? Always the same…”Children who have special needs have no worth or value in their own country. They have no place there.”
I have come to realize that right here at home we really are not so very different to them after all. We have such a long way to go in unconditional acceptance.
I am so sorry that you’ve had this experience. People can be so cruel and heartless. I love your blog. I find you so inspirational. I love seeing your sweet family. I believe wholeheartedly that you’re living God’s will for your life. Don’t let those other people get you down, you have a lot of support.
Every child is beautiful and perfect. It is as simple as that.
I am so sorry. I saw that video and LOVED IT! It made me laugh and smile and rejoice. Hugs from an hour away to you my sweet friend. I agree - I will never, ever, never, ever, ever let anyone hurt mine either!
Oh my that is just horrible!!! I am in the process of adopting a little girl with severe brain damage. I’m a single mom with 5 kids, all very close in age. We get looks and comments but nothing vicious yet! I get all mama bearish just with the “looks” I can’t imagine hateful words!!!
I saw the video and thought she looked adorable!!! Also I closely followed your story when you were adopting the girls. Reading your blog lead me to search for and now adopt my precious daughter!!! So please don’t ever stop sharing!
It absolutely hurts my heart that people would ever say such cruel things about Hailee! She is an absolutely beautiful daughter of our King! And she has come so far! It has been a blessing to me to watch her grow these past months! I was so blessed and touched by the video you posted! I don’t understand people, but I do know God will bring justice to people and their words! He will be Hailee’s justifier!
“I tell you, on the day of judgment, people will give account for every careless word they speak.”
- Matthew 12:36
I will be praying for Hailee today, and also, everyone who said cruel things against her. As we’ve seen with Hailee, Jesus is a redeemer. He is redeeming her, and He can redeem them as well. He can open their eyes to the beauty of Down’s and other special needs! His righteous can cover their sins on the day of judgment if they will allow the Great Redeemer to come into their lives!
Have a blessed day!!
I am so sorry you received such horrible comments on the video. I thought it was the most precious and sweet video I have seen in a long time. I too have special needs children and I have less than zero tolerance for those so called christians that pass judgement on my family. It is a sad world we live in when different is scorned instead of cherished.
just wanted to send a quick cyber-hug your way. i want you to know that i LOVE your blog; it is still my favorite because i get to witness miracles! the video you posted made my day; hailee truly is a new creation. God has done a mighty work in her. i cannot fathom why anyone would say something negative except that what you are doing with your lives is so God-honoring, that inevitably, some people are truly threatened and satan is completely ticked off! consider it a post well-written when you get those negative comments that only show how the enemies of Christ are threatened. love to you and those adorable treasures!!!
tara
I am just a random stranger, and I’m very different from you. I read your blog, I don’t even remember how I found it, even though I have a very very different perspective than you on many things. But as different as we may be, we are both mothers.
One thing that is clear on this blog, is that you love your children. That you face all the struggles moms face and that you still love mothering. We have that in common, and even though I may not always agree with everything you say, I very much appreciate your honesty and openness. We’re all in this parenting thing together, to a degree. We’re all supposed to be on the same team. I’m so sorry hurtful things have been said about your babies. There’s nothing more painful to a mom, or more unfair. Your kids are all beautiful, and your family is perfect. I’m glad I saw the video before you had to take it down. For what it’s worth, I thought it was adorable, that Hailee’s laughter was infectious. And I did notice your other kids playing in the background. It struck me how sweetly they all were playing together, and I loved to see how the older kids were including their littlest sister. What a lovely family. And how nice to see a dad playing with his daughter. That is why I read this blog, despite any differences we may have…I always leave with a smile in my heart to see a family that is growing together and loving each other, when so many are not. I personally am NOT a very outwardly religious person, but I feel quite compelled to say, Bless you all. You’re in my prayers.
I was wondering what happened to that video. It was very very precious-a testimony to what God is doing in Haley’s and your families lives through His Grace and Love. Sorry that there are people around who don’t know what to so with there time!
I saw the video.I thought it was sweet to hear her laughter.Sweet Harper when I look at her I think she must have came from the most beautiful mother and she is so precious who could ever given her up.Haven so wonderful she has found comfort.The other children how blessed they are to be able to love and give.You need to speak out.You need to carry the cross for the orphans.If not you who will? I adore seeing the progress of how far the children have grown with love and if other families considering adopting special children don’t see these things there will be so many fears and doubts and so many children will be put back like Haven was.You show the beauty of these children that nobody wants and that is a blessing.There will always be cruelity that is the fallen world we live in.For those pray god will give them peace that they do not need to abuse others,it’s a cry for attention after you pray wash your hands of them.You know the love and joy in your home and it is a blessing to us that you share that joy.Warm Blessings!~Amy
Adeye I’m so sorry that people are attacking you/your kids and that you are having to deal with all that nastiness. i did wonder what happened to the video-i just loved watching and listening to her laughing-it was so precious! We live in such a sad world, where so many who are different have no value to many people. I grew up with my mum as the principal of a school for kids with special needs, and that is what i was surrounded by all my life, after i grew up i worked with people with special needs, we have fostered kids with s/n, including down syndrome, and our youngest has hydrocephalus. I have never seen any of them as having less value-but I see some of the hatred, and the nastiness and I am so sad that people have to face that. Praying for wisdom for you
I’m so sorry that you have to go thru that. There are just some evil folks out there. Just have to pray for them, even when we don’t want to. You & Anthony are so wonderful to do what you are doing. I don’t really know ya’ll but feel very close to you, my sister in Jesus. If you have to make your blog private all of your blog family would understand. It’s hard to know what to do. Just know you all are loved! Beth Miles
Wow! I am shocked. I can’t even imagine what was worth criticism in that video. No clue.
I thought it was precious. To see that little girl so full of joy blessed my socks off!
(And thanks for explaining the “sticks”- I get it now. lol)
Oh precious friend - I am so sorry to hear this and sadly not surprised. I will be praying for all who meant evil against your children and family.
Amen!!! to your words of wisdom, strength, and power of truth!!! In whom I know where they all come from. Our God who sees all, knows all and LOVES ALL!
May we take His words to heart and be very careful with the way we use our own words and LOVE until it hurts!
I love you so! BIG HUGS!!! Standing with you on this and feel the same way!
Jill
Sweet Adeye,
You are a blessing to me. Your blog has been such an inspiration to me. You’re children are amazing! I believe that you are shinning a light in darkness and I believe that shinning a light in darkness comes with opposition. (Ephesians 6:12) We have recently been matched with twin boys that we are bringing home from Africa. We can not wait to hold them in our arms and love on them. Following your blog has been part of us seeing the plan that the Lord would have for us. THANK YOU for sharing your heart with me. I’m praying for you and others who are sharing light in the darkness.
Rachael
http://adoptinggodsdreams.blogspot.com/
Oh Adeye,
I am so sorry for Hailey that someone would direct mean, hurtful things towards her. I saw the video the other night and wanted to join your family and get in on the playing. Her giggle was infectious and beautiful, even more so because I have seen through your blog where she has come from. I think you may be right, we in the US have a long way to go, we may not throw these special sweeties into an orphanage and try to forget about them, but what we do is much worse, we (in general int he this country) choose not to give birth to these gifts from God. How I ache for the children lost and the ones that are abandoned. Thank you for sharing your story even when people are like this.
Yikes. I’m sorry that happened. I think that what you and your husband have done and are doing for the cause of orphans, and ultimately the Kingdom, is nothing short of amazing. Just when I feel like slacking or ‘forgetting’, I can read your blog and remember why God has called my husband and I to adopt and that yes, we can do it. So thanks.
That was such a sweet video. I was going to show it to my husband and saw it was removed.
It is devastating the world we live in. I don’t understand it either.
Oh my. I watched that precious video and loved it! I’m so sorry you received such hateful comments about it. I don’t even know what else to say. Please don’t allow the jerks to silence you. You are doing what Christ has called the church to do. Don’t lose sight of that and just blog or don’t blog when you feel led.
I am shocked and horrified that this happened. What a sad SAD world this is where supposed adult HUMAN BEINGS can act in this manner.
Anonymity doesn’t mean that the words don’t hurt, folks. Think hard before you post such hateful nasty things.
Truthfully, though, people who THINK this -never mind write it- are the ones with the true “disability.”
i am so sad to read this post. those people who wrote nasty things about your BEAUTIFUL family are just satan in disguise. i personally look forward to your blog every single day. it is one of the first things i do each day. i love love love all your pictures, your honesty, your humor and your family. i am sorry that i missed the video of Hailey. i can’t veiw it at work and didn’t get the chance to look at it at home. please don’t let those mean spirited people stop you from sharing. i have been amazed by hailey and harpers journey. i love watching them change and grow. you and your family are such loving individuals and it is evident in those beauties with the extra chromosome. all your kids are beautiful. please don’t stop sharing. i for one would be very sad. you inspire me. you honestly do!! so please, those hateful people will meet their maker one day and trust me, they will be no where near us!!!
I am sooo sorry. I just can’t wrap my head around someone saying ANYTHING like this. You and your family are such a blessing and you have already been a instrumental in bringing home how many special kids? This is purely an attack. Satan does not want to see your kids or any others blossoming.
We will pray for protection for you and your family. And at the same time rejoice in the great work you are doing! Don’t lose your anger about these comments but count them as a sign you are doing the “stuff” God has called you to!!
I am sad that we missed the precious video but I so understand. Sheri
I went to click on that link the other night, & when it wasn’t there, I was so afraid this is what had happened…I was so sad b/c I was anxious to see it & show it to my Kearsten. Funny, she is the happiest she’s ever been b/c she is student teaching in a SN classroom. It’s what she’s always wanted to do, & according to her, they have been the best days! I’m sorry your family has been subjected once again to the ignorance that abounds. They just don’t get it.
hi Adeye,
I totally understand. I’m sorry that you had to go through this.
I praising God, from whom all blessings (of honest bloggers and beautiful babies and all the other goodness in life) flow when I read your words. Wish I’d watched the video of your happy girl when I had a chance. In “The Hole in Our Gospel”, we are reminded of why we are here: 1-love God, 2-love our neighbors, 3-teach others to do the same. I’m blessed, as someone who has never met you, to call you a friend and sister who is living God’s purpose for her life. God Bless You!
Oh, I am so sorry! You are right, it’s not so different here. I always say that I live in a bubble too. That’s OK. Let’s keep our homes bubbles around families. We have to go out, but we can come back to love and acceptance and the normal of Jesus, not the normal of world.
ai!That’s what I was afraid of when I saw you had removed the post. I am honestly just stunned. I saw the video twice and I cannot even THINK of what these mean comments could have been about???? I guess I just don’t have it in me. Thank goodness.
I am so sorry that your precious children were attacked, albeit in written form that they will never see. I also am surprised right along with you about the attitude you have recieved from people in this country-well, I suppose the comments were from this country-maybe not.
I loved the video and was thankful you had posted it. It was great hearing Hailee laugh.
Have a good day Adeye!
Oh Adeye, I’m so sorry to hear that some people can be so heartless. But to be honest, since I’m not that way inclined, I can’t even imagine what on earth they could come up with that upset you so much. From a precious video like that, I can’t even imagine where to get anything negative. Mmmm, but that’s just me.
Thank you again for always being willing to be honest and share your journey. I has touched so many of us. Much love, L
I am so very sorry.
May the Lord heal your hurts.
I too am struggling with blogging.
Wanting to share so much more, but unwilling to “deal” with the nastiness that comes with the Truth.
Remember dear sister, DARKNESS HATES THE LIGHT.
Keep being a light!
Hugs from the oven {oops, I mean Northern Uganda},
Summer
Awww, I’m sad you took the video down. . . such a perfect picture of a father’s love and a daughter’s joy!
Would Anthony be able to weed out the horrible comments on your blog before you see them?
I’m enraged thinking about such horrible, nasty people. I bet your blog challenges people’s hearts-they’re obviously uncomfortable and weak. . . people try to pump themselves up by attacking others. . . honestly, I think a lot of those people probably feel a little convicted, challenged, even though they’d never admit that and might not even recognize it happening. . .if they were so secure in their (nasty) views they wouldn’t feel the need to attack. Especially a child-that screams that they are weak-weak-weak.
You know we (your real readers) got your back girlfriend! There are waaaaay more people who see your family as absolutely beautiful and your children as absolutely perfect.
I am so sorry that you had to write this blog post! You’re right - children are OFF LIMITS! I’m also sorry that I didn’t get to see the sweet video of Hailee before you had to remove it. Your children are all beautiful and the faults you mention about yourself… well, I don’t see any of them in your blog! You are an amazing woman, Adeye and God speaks to so many people through you! Thank you for blessing my life and inspiring me!
And to whoever thinks a blog is a place to bash people and say unkind things, shame on you!!!
Seriously, sister? I tell ya, some people just need to find a real fight!
I am so sorry that your family and especially Hailee became the object of such hatred. My husband and I both watched the video and were incredibly blessed by Hailee’s precious laugh and pure joy.
Thank you for sharing it!
Lori King
Wow. What the heck? I just loved hearing her laugh. I wondered if the play was too rough, but left that to the judgment of HER PARENTS. Beyond that, I just don’t know what there was to criticize. She was getting love and attention.
It is a sick person who can look at a sweet child and criticize.
I hope you’ll keep sharing; don’t let Satan win. Don’t let him silence the victory God has worked in the lives of your family.
I have “lurked” here on your blog for awhile. I am/have been in awe of you and your family. I must, however, come out of “lurkdom” and post here. IT was a fabulous video. So wonderful to see all the smiles, etc. on your precious daughter. Those kiddos are the luckiest in the world to have so much love surrounding them. Keep doin’ what you are doin’!
Oh Adeye,
I am soooo sorry, it is sad to me to how some people can be.
On another note I just have to say that you are an amazing write and photographer and I would be so sad if you ever stopped blogging. God uses you big time through your blog and don’t let ignorant people stop you.
hugs!
I am so sorry, I saw the video and thought it was amazing to see Hailey enjoying her life with your family. I saw the children in the background but didn’t give them a second thought I don’t know what on earth people can have found to be mean about?
Alice
Mum to 3, teacher to adults with learning disabilities in the UK
Thank you for your honesty!!!! I wondered where the video went, when I logged on to show my husband your sweet little girl and her amazing giggles. How anyone could find something evil to say about your children is beyond me. But you are right, the only real difference between here and there is that we have laws that are enforced to include our special needs population, we still have VERY FAR to go to have true acceptance in people hearts. It is so sad that so many people have trouble seeing others as individuals, without having to pick everyone apart for their own needs.
I think your children are beautiful, and I see what treasures they are, not just to you, but to this world. I think that you have an absolutly beautiful family, fully of love for this world, even when the world doesn’t always seem deserving of such love (although it is exactly what is needed). PLEASE contiunue to share and be honest with all of us friendly strangers out here. Personaly, I follow your blog because, I love to see the progress that Harper and Hailey make, it give my heart hope for all of the little ones waiting for families (and because they are just so sweet, and I can’t get enough of them). I love see your photos and hearing about your day as a bigger family just trying to make it everyday. I find your words, thoughts and opinions to be inspiring and thought provoking. And because I love to see families who are happy, who openly and honestly admit their faults and bad days, but who are still able to be happy. There are not enough family’s like that.
Hugs to you and your lovely family, and thank you!!!
I was also blessed by the video, as I am also blessed by your blog. Thank you for sharing your story with us. Seeing what Christ’s love can accomplish is truly beautiful. Thank you for being a light and testifying about His greatness.
I’m so sorry that you are having to deal with such hatred. It amazes me that people have nothing to do with their time but spread hatred and attack innocent children. If they actually “had a life” they probably wouldn’t be so miserable and have to try and hurt others. I have followed your blog since you traveled to adopt them and I think you are doing a WONDERFUL job as their mom and they are absolute precious angels. I, too, am adopting an SN child through RR and I follow your blog for inspiration and for encouragement. I really am sad that I didn’t get to see the video but I am sure it would have made my day
Their are no rules on how to blog! I love your blog and actually wish you would post more. This world is full of mean cruel people. Miserable and unhappy they lash out at anyone who will take it… someone sweet like you is the perfect target for them. Its not fair and you deserve nothing but love and positive thoughtful comments. Im sorry you have to be the back board to these heartless people. Please do not let them question anything you blog about. You Rock! and they can all Kick rocks… let the fester is their own misery.. Rise above it and be you
You are a great mother.. Just remember that
Oh my goodness, I am sorry there is people who just cannot keep their opinions to themselves. I am sorry you, your children, & your hubby have to endure such hate in this world. Yes, one day they will have to face our Almighty God! God sees and hears every tear! We pray for a covering over you and the family. God has sent You to help rescue so many children who don’t have a voice. I pray you continue to write! Missing you all in Colorado! Sending hugs!
Unbelievable! That video was adorable! How could anyone say terrible things? Some people must be so hurt inside that they look for ways to hurt others. I’m sorry you experienced this.
I’ve never left a comment but feel I must now. I’ve been following your blog now for about 6 months and I have adored seeing those precious children and being on the front row of watching miracles happen. Your blog and your precious family have blessed me as God has been working in my own life. I don’t think it was coincidence that I read Radical, then found your blog, and continue to run across story after story of Christians who were already living radically! I am challenged…inspired….and encouraged by you. Please don’t give up fighting the good fight. Especially over some rotten eggs. Because God can reach even them. No? Blessings to you!
Oh no, I am so sorry you had to deal with that Adeye. I wish I would have seen the video, it sounds totally precious!
Wow, how sad are those people that felt they needed to leave a nasty comment. I can’t imagine what the comments would be about a daddy loving on his girl. I understood what sticks were because she is so little that made total sense to me. She was having a ball and loving every minute of it. I don’t think that I saw anything in there that made me gasp or want to hollar out.
I am very sorry that whoever posted mean comments made you feel bad. I smiled as I watched it.
You are doing amazing things with all of your children. And you have been such a voice, advocating for those who still need their forever families to find them. For Hailee to have love and laughter where there once was none…who could possibly have a problem with that?!?
I am speechless. Really. How could anyone find any reason to say anything cruel about a little child like Hailee? I am so sorry for you! (And sad that I missed that post, because I would have loved to see Hailee’s progress!) I fully understand that you are hurting and that you doubt what to share and not share, and that you are saddened and shocked to realize what some people really think. I too am often shocked by people’s cruelty. I don’t understand either!
That breaks my heart. I’m so sorry you had mean people say mean things about your family. I saw the video and it was so great. Her transformation is a miracle and such a joy. I read your blog nearly everyday and it blesses me daily. Sending you big hugs!
Blessings,
Amy
I am so sorry that people had to be so darn cruel. I saw the video, it was precious! You have beautiful children and I look forward to checking your blog daily to look for new pics and stories of your family. I will never understand how some people can be so hateful-especially towards children. Many blessings to your family.
I have been so blessed to see the transformation of Hailee. She is a miracle to see how love and God are transforming her. Thanks for sharing your heart, sin is every where and unfortunately it is here just as much as across the ocean. You are so encouraging to me. Your little angels are beautiful1
Holly:)
http://www.arnoldfamilynews.blogspot.com
I am so sorry Adeye. I saw the video and I thought it was beautiful! I laughed with Hailee. It is clear that she is loving being loved by her family.
I thought it was great to see the kid in the background too. What could people possibly say about that?!
I’m sorry people are so judgmental and frankly, horrible to you. Your family is an inspiration to me.
I just cannot imagine what somebody could have said that was negative about that video… It was such a blessing to me. Proof of the miracle of love. Hailee’s laughter brought a smile to my face and warmth to my heart.
There will always be negative people in the world, though. Heck, my 13 year old daughter recently got negative looks from a CHRISTIAN friend of ours because of her nosering. A (tasteful) NOSERING (which we had allowed her to get for her birthday.)
Don’t people have anything better to do with their time and intelligence than judge others?
God bless you and your family today.
I am so sorry that this has happened. It saddens me to know that here in the US, things are not different. Our children will and do experience the looks, the criticism, the cruel words. We love and support what you and your family are doing. You are so strong in the Lord and He gives you the strength to continue in the face of all of this criticism. I wish that I had seen the video of Hailee. I have been so proud of her and her progress. I always run to tell my family how she is progressing, like her first little steps. I know that it gives other parents hope for their children. Thank you for sharing your experiences. I will continue to pray for your family.
Tina
The video was sweet and fun, and precious. Nothing less, nothing more. I loved it.
Sorry people are so mean~ I don’t get it, but this world is sinful and rebellious… sorry!
angela
It’s sad that some people ruin the joy that others do bring. I truly enjoyed seeing the light shine through your video. So precious. So awesome to see God’s work in action. You are an awesome mom! Thank you for allowing us to get a glimpse of your wonderful family. Love & Hugs my friend!
Every child is made in the image of God. Keep blogging. You are helping others. The mean words that people write, well they just need to remember that THEY are held accountable for every word they utter. God bless you and your family.
Blessings,
Delora
Why, why, WHY??????!!!!!!!!!! I wish I had seen the video…I can’t believe that people *make fun* of precious little angels! It’s simply unbelievable. My dear friend Emily had to close her blog because there were too many rude comments. Obviously the people who so rudely ridiculed little Hailee have never heard “…and He made man in His own image…”.
Wow! I am so surprised at people and the comments they can leave. I pray that the Lord will open their eyes to see the beauty they cannot see now. Thank you for who you are and what you are doing. All your children are so sweet and precious!
I am sorry that you & Anthony have had such horrible things said about your beautiful children. I did not get a chance to see the video, but I am sure Hailee was adorable!
By the way, I will disagree with one of your comments…your photographs are NOT amateurish…they are great
Hugs,
Rachel.
You dont know me, I am a lurker on your blog. My heart breaks for your family that you have to endure hurtful things when you do so much for others. Please know that what you share brings SO much to others and I truly believe it HAS to outweigh the negative. You have changed my life in the short weeks I have been aware of your blog. You have made me question my life, my beliefs, if I am living up to the kind of person I want to be….and showing my children the kind of people I want THEM to be. You have portrayed your children so well that I cant WAIT to check on your blog every morning and see what sweet things they are up to and what obstacles they have recently overcome. It brings me so much joy…and makes me want to do more for others. Please continue to share what YOU want to share. SO many of us love those girls!!!
I was blessed to see the video…pure joy of a daddy and his precious daughter delighting in one another. What a reflection of the Father’s love for us!
I struggle to understand why someone would be so offended by such innocence…I guess it’s evidence of darkness hating light. Please don’t grow weary of doing what is right and good…the Father is glorified.
Blessings to you and your family!
I, sadly, missed the video. I get so much joy from watching your loving family and seeing your treasures blossom. People can be so cruel (whether special needs or not). Nothing hurts more than when someone speaks against my children. Don’t mess with my babies! How sad their lives must be with so much negativity and ugliness. Hugs & prayers to you and your sweet family.
It is so difficult to understand why people feel they have the right to be so mean to anyone… especially children. It isn’t as though Hailee decided to take herself to an orphanage to waste away for 5 years, the decision was made for her… she is just an innocent child. You said ‘We have such a long way to go in unconditional acceptance.” Amen to that. I know that God’s heart is broken hearing the judgment and hatred spewed out of the mouths of so many people around us. He is the only true judge. I am so sorry that you have to deal with that.
I personally LOVE to hear about Hailee in particular. I want to know so badly how she is progressing. And if nothing in her ever changes or develops over the rest of her beautiful life, then at least she has found laughter and joy and a love like she has NEVER known before. Thank you for stepping out in faith to adopt and thank you for advocating so fiercely for the others left behind.
I dont know if I saw the post or not. I cant imagine what would have made people say anything. I think I may live in that bubble you talked about as well.
I watched that dateline show what would you do. The one with the man with DS that was a bagger. Things that people said were awful and not saying anything when he was being insulted was just as bad if not worse! I didnt know people did that.
Someone told my very pregnant friend last month that she needed to go on biggest loser. I just…I dont understand. I am sure we all think things we shouldnt but to say them out loud, I guess I just thought we were better than that. Guess not.
So very very sorry people were not nice to your sweet sweet baby girl. Hugs.
Be blessed
Ashlee
Hi Adeye,
I don’t think I have ever posted a comment before, but wanted to jump on to be one more visual support. I loved the video, and I cry over the progress your beautiful children have made. I have no idea what negative things people said, or could find to say honestly.
Anyway, I just want to let you know that your family and you especially have been a big source of encouragement to me.
We too have a houseful, we have 5 kids (youngest from China) and are adopting two from Ethiopia.
Becky
A fellow Jesus lover in CA.
http://www.carlsencrew.com
Maybe I am too naive, but I am sitting here and even in the darkest corner of my soul I cannot imagine what anyone would have to say NEGATIVE about a laughing, giggling, happy CHILD??? I don´t get it, I really don´t. And I am not as religious as you are and I am not adopting children, I am just a very regular person, I think. But I like reading your blog and admire you and your wonderful family and rejoice at their progress. That is why I come back frequently. But why would someone put in the effort to check your blog just to criticize you??????? I really don´t get it, I really don´t.
Oh my heart…I am so sorry this happend and that I missed out on the precious video! PRayers with you and your family and prayers for those who side with the enemy and are being so hurtful.
Oh my goodness!!! How dreadfully awful!!! I saw the video and shared it with my family. We laughed along with it and cried at how much your sweet little one has changed over such a short time. We see God’s redemption all over this child!!!
Dear one, know this is an attack from the enemy as well. You and Anthony are doing things that so many of us are afraid to do. The enemy is here to take that joy from you. Please don’t stop. Please hear me when I say, protect your children at all cost. But don’t lose your voice for those who have none. Ignorance is where we want to live sometimes but to those whose hearts belong to the LORD, ignorance is NOT a place where we can stay for very long. I choose not to stay there because I know God is calling me to do more. Seeing families like yours, gives my family courage in knowing that we won’t be the only ones out there fighting for the ones that the world says are less but God calls beautiful.
Keep up the good fight. God is your banner and He has gone before you. None of this is a surprise to Him. He knew you would have a righteous anger over this and your voice will be heard because He will make it heard. In the end, I have no doubt, you will hear,”Well done my good and faithful servant.”
((((HUGS)))) from a sister in Christ.
I saw the video, and it brought such a big smile to my face! How Hailee’s life has changed! She has LOVE now!!
I am so sorry that people were unkind. We have seen the same thing with one of our boys with special needs. He has come a long way but when we were really struggling, we had “Christian” people say things and react in ways that were very hurtful. I felt that many times non-Christians were nicer to us and more accepting of our son. Very, very sad. I am very protective of our son and will do whatever it takes to protect him (even had to pull him out of Sunday School).
Please continue to post about your children—you are such an inspiration and I know you have opened people’s eyes to the absolute beauty of all children, regardless of their needs. You so clearly show that each child was created by God uniquely. Your love for your children is very evident.
Praying for those who said hurtful things—may God open their eyes to what HE wants them to see—the beauty of all children!
The depravity and darkness of man’s shows in the most unlikely places/circumstances. The enemy likes to push our buttons! Your family is such a beautiful testimony of God’s love of us as His precious children!!
I smiled ear to ear when I watched that video as I do with all of your blog postings regarding each and every one of your beautiful children. Continue sharing for the rest of us who come to your site filled with the love of Jesus.
I am another stranger who follows your blog (which I LOVE). We too have a heart for orphans and plan on growing our family again soon.
It breaks my heart when others see our children as needing to be fixed when God, their creator, (and us that love them) see them as absolute perfection.
I am so very sorry for the hurtful words that were said to you…it is truly heartbreaking and just plain cruel. Your children are beautiful.
I truly believe you and your family are changing the world for the better! God bless you all!
Oh, Adeye. I’m sorry there are UGLY people out there. I am proud of you and of Anthony for taking a stand. God trusts us with these children. And, like you, I take that job seriously.
Love you, Friend!
(and I’m so stinkin’ sorry I missed that sweet video!)
I am so sorry that you had to deal with such perverted ugliness. I cannot begin to understand the terrible inner flaws which lead individuals to make such cruel remarks.
Your children are beautiful, and I loved the video - my earlier remarks about possible neck vulnerablity (common in people with DS) were made out of concern for your lovely little daughter - and looking back, it’s very probable that you’ve had her checked and she is just fine, so please don’t group me with the “uglies”! Thoughtless and tactless, perhaps, yeah, I’ve been both more than once, alas, but never intentionally hurtful to such innocence…
You are welcome to publish this or not, whatever seems best.
With all good wishes,
Susan in Ky
Adeye-
2Cor.12:15
And I will very gladly spend and be spent for you, though the more abundantantly I love you the less I be loved.
Just keep loving. Just keep posting and sharing and knowing that people will be mean despite what avenue you use to be yourself. You were wise for deleting post, and unfortunately you may have to delete images/posts/videos in the future. Just don’t stop. Children’s little lives are being saved: hence Julia, Bohdan, and Yuri. Right? So, keep on … spending and being spent. Despite what the reaction is.
BTW- Ivanna (who I emailed you about while we were still in country about being given meds to sedate) she is doing GREAT! She has gained seven pounds in seven weeks. She took her first steps the other night. She is blossoming. She is now 27 pounds! Amazing. Truly amazing.
Blessings my friend.
~Charrissa
Adeye-
You don’t know me, I don’t even remember how I stumbled upon your blog, but it has been such a blessing to me. I now have my mind set on adopting, and my husband and I talk about it almost every day. It won’t be for a few years, but my heart is aching for these orphans and I would go get them all right now if I could. Your children are so beautiful and such an amazing gift from God. Our 2 year old has autism, and we’ve already been subjected to some not-so-nice comments about him, even some family members look at him as less than perfect, which just boggles my mind. All children are perfect just how God made them. I can’t believe anyone would have a negative thing to say about you or your amazing family. I just wanted to give you a virtual hug, and let you know that I think you are absolutely amazing. Keep fighting the good fight. God bless you!!
People are just crazy. I don’t know why some go out of their way to be mean. I saw your sweetie’s video and laughed right along with her. She’s a jewel, no matter what the haters think.
Oh… I wish I had seen the video, I love Hailee, I shouldn’t say this but she is my favorite! maybe beacuse she’s so small and suffered for very long 5 years! Don’t listen to those stupid people, they are ignorants, that kind of people can only see “the bad side” of everything.
ps… can you send me the video?
I have no idea what disgusting filth people spewed after that adorable video, but they should be ashamed of their behavior. I for one, loved seeing sweet Hailee love and laugh and your other treasures playing in the background. It warms my heart to see all of God’s children glowing with the love of a family. I know that when people come attacking, it often means that you’re doing the right thing and they can’t cope, but that doesn’t make it any easier. I hope you don’t stop sharing, but I can understand your desire to fiercely protect your babies. That’s what good mamas do. Everyone has to do what they think is right for their own family and those people that are truly behind you and are brothers and sisters in Christ will never judge. We are all here for you, no matter how many yucky people sling mud at you. We will defend and we will come together. People who attack children are just disgusting and should keep their hatred and ridiculousness to themselves. Their behavior is an especially horrible manifestation of evil. We’re here for you Adeye.
Love and blessings, A
Oh Adeye I am so sorry. Ugh. I LOVED the video, loved Hailee and her daddy and the kids in the background. To be honest, I can’t FATHOM what someone could have said about it that was mean.
It is honestly pure evil that leads people to see children-ANY children-as anything less than God’s amazing creation. Satan hates God, and hates God’s children. People are so deceived.
I love your blog and it continues to be an encouragement to me as we wait to bring our daughters home. Thank you so much for continuing to share your sweet heart.
I did not see the video but it is obvious to me from all the comments that Satan wants you to stop blogging about your family. He uses weak hurting people to do his dirty work. I find your blog very inspiring and I think your words of honesty are making an impact on many people. Don’t let the enemy stop you from sharing and advocating for all the little ones who still need a forever family!
I am sorry you had to experience that. I did not see the video. I wish I had. I love to see your children grow and learn. There are just mean people out there. I always try to remember we have to see the evil in the world to really appreciate the good. You are good. Take care!
Sadly when you have a public blog and put yourself and your thoughts, feelings and beliefs out there there will always be mean-spirited “trolls” who attack and harrass and leave hateful cruel comments, even more so when you are a Witness for God’s Truth. The same happens to me online and on my blog all the time. If God loves us and we follow Him then the world hates us but we have to remain strong in defending what it right.
It is just shocking to read this. Of course we as human can not always agree but there is always a way to be respectful to each other.
I can not understand why somebody would say nasty things about an innocent little girl. I think she is adorable!
Adeye,
Not so long ago I wrote a blog post about my floors being redone, easy, light post no heavy adoption stuff. The next morning I woke up to a comment that had me on the floor, so much so that I made my blog private for a week or so just to protect my heart. The person that left the comment attacked me with such venom I didn’t know what to do. I prayed, I cried, I wrestled with what should I share about my life, what is too much, is it worth it? Finally I came up with this, when I write, when I read hateful comments about adoptig a child with DS, I picture Paisley’s face across the room, and this room is filled with both people that love her and with some that hate her or me and I think, no matter what I will push myself through all of this,through all of these people and I will get to her. God put adoption in my heart, God led me to your blog so you could water that seed. Paisley will have a family this year because of what you wrote, because of what God planted. I know it hurts, I know it and I hate it. Let us be the angel wings that surround your family and protect you from these hateful people. There is so much love here for your girls, for all of you. Don’t give those hateful people any more power, just listen for the fluttering of angel wings and know all of us are here and WE ARE GOING to make this country, this world see our children just as they should see them, beautiful and perfect in every way.
Love finds a way,
Renee Tam
chasing-moonlight.blogspot.com
I am sorry that this has happened. I loved hearing her delighted laughter and seeing the interaction with her daddy. You have a beautiful family and I love that you are sharing your journey of faith. It stinks that some people who lack understanding have to attempt to ruin moments of joy.
Dannette (mom in Kansas who found your blog)
I have been reading your blog for a long time now and am just shocked that anyone could say hurtful stuff about your precious children. I am shocked that anyone who has followed Hailee and Harper’s journey could see them as anything but complete blessings from God. They have blessed my life and I have never met them. Please keep sharing. Jealousy is a powerful emotion- my guess is the posters saw the raw joy that your family have, a joy that comes from above, not from things and tried to damage or lessen it. They obviously underestimated your faith.
I’m sorry I missed the video but very happy that I missed the comments.
I cant understand why anyone who reads your blog could have anything negative or cruel to say. If for some bizarre reason, they don’t like your family, then don’t read about it. Simple.
I am sorry I missed the video, but even more sorry you had to witness awful comments about your angels!
Gosh!!! Where do people like that came from????? I thought that video was so cute, I actually watch it about 4 times. She has such a happy laugh! Adeye don’t let people get to you with those horrible words! All your kids look so happy and content.
Liezel
New Zealand
I am sorry that I did not have the chance to hear your beautiful daughter’s laughter. Having seen her pictures in her orphanage, in the Ukraine when you were there, her progress is beautiful, wonderful and it’s because of you and Anthony and your precious family. Those with hateful words are scared people who do not understand, some do not want to understand. I will keep you in my prayers, Hailee and Harper have now the possibility of living, not just being somewhere doing nothing. They have love, unconditionnal love, they have care, they have a family and parents who will love and speak for them, they are beautiful. Don’t let yourselves get you down. You are doing the right thing.
Marie-Claude
I have never left you a note but I want you to know that I never miss a day coming to your blog. I love it and it blesses me everyday to see a family that values life. No only value it but is willing to fight for it. I loved the video!
I am so grateful that I saw the video. I commented on the video post- I think it was the first time I have ever commented here, because it was just the most wonderful thing I have seen in such a long time. It was pure joy.
I did comment on how sweet I thought Harper was to want to crawl over, I hope that wasn’t what you were referring to when you mentioned people commenting on your other children. The number of comments to this post is testimony to how many people your blog touches. Please don’t be discouraged from sharing in the future.
I saw the video and it made my heart happy to hear such joy come from Hailee (though I wasnt sure what the ‘sticks’ were! =])
I dont know why anyone would say anything negative about your sweet family- to see the happiness and love that your family shares is so wonderful.
as a momma of a special needs child, this hurts my heart. I didn’t see the video before it was taken down, and I am not sure what was so offensive that made people commented hateful things towards your family. But, I admire you for taking on a difficult task and following Gods call for your family. You have inspired my husband and I to adopted from Reeces Rainbow, once our little girl (who has DS) is a little older and healthier. She is amazing and so are all your kids and my heart is aching that people are still saying hateful things about our kids. I really felt our society had matured to be a little better then that.
I saw it and it blessed me greatly. Why, because it showed God’s blessing and power in the life of one special little girl. How any one could make any thing else of this is crazy!I do not see what on earth they could have said? And about the children playing?… This world is close to teh end…and we in our Christian bubble will leave it all behind.Some days it is hard to wait!
So sorry that some people are so mean. I think there are just random people who follow random blogs so that they can leave mean comments. So sad. = - ( I saw your video and LOVED it - pure joy and happiness is what I saw and what 99.99% of the people saw…we just didn’t all leave a comment. Thanks for sharing your life and the healing touch that love can bring - so inspirational! = - )
I am so very sorry that someone said such evil things about your precious children. I will never understand such people, and never want to! ((hugs)) to you and your beautiful family
I never understand how people can say horrible and hurtful things about children. You blog and your girls story have softend my husbands heart towards sn adoptions. I saw the video and it was so joyous, her laugh… amazing how far she has come! Thanks to your family!!!
Adeye, I’m so sorry I missed the video-it sounds sooooo precious!! I rarely comment on your blog but I read it all the time-your family is such an encouragement and inspiration to me! The fact that anyone could say cruel things about your lovely family is just beyond me.
Adeye -
The video was beautiful. Your children are beautiful gifts and your life journey is a miracle in action. Thank you for sharing.
As a parent who is raising a son with Down syndrome this subject shakes me to the core. You are right on - while our society talks plenty about acceptance, it is just that - talk.
I’ve struggled with such bold {and anonymous} commenters as I know that sadly they represent a significant and hurting potion of our population. While most people in our country claim ‘acceptance’ the numbers - that 9 out of 10 babies diagnosed with Down syndrome are aborted - tell a different story. We are no different then those other countries across the ocean. We just make our ‘choice’ before they are born.
Without a doubt those “9” are very likely the wounded parents who have aborted a disabled child. And those broken hearted parents will carry the burden of their ‘choice’ to abort a baby with Down syndrome forever.
Adeye, sadly you, me and every other parent who proudly shares their journey of raising a child with Down syndrome is taking the burden of this ‘fallout.’ But if it helps other parents say ‘yes’ to this extraordinary journey - be it through adoption or choosing NOT to terminate - then it is worth it. It isn’t easy, nor did He say it would be, but thank goodness He is always by our side.
Libby
I’m so sorry to hear about the bad un sensitive comments!! I would’ve been hysterical! I know we all have our mama bear moments when it comes to defend our children. However, I’m so sad I didn’t get to see the video!! Ugh!
I am so sorry this happened. My goodness! I didn’t get to see her laughing and I’m SO dissapointed! Harper and Hailey have really touched my heart and I’m always so happy to see new pictures and updates and see the healing of their little hearts and bodies. They are so precious and perfect exactly the way God made them!
God bless your family,
Sarah
I loved your sweet video!!!!! I watched it again and again laughing along with Hailee and Anthony. I really admire you and your family.
Oh Adeye, I am so sorry to hear you have to face mean people so often! Treat them as SICK people who do not know what they are talking about, and they get upset when they see happy people. They really are - the sick people. You should keep on doing your work - being honest, and sharing happiness. Maybe it’s time for you to get a secretary-gate keeper?
I can send you my resume!
That makes me so sad that you were hurt by sharing your precious daughter’s joy with us. Boo. Satan is attacking. Please please, continue to share your life with us. Continue to share your joy, your blessings, your wisdom. Even your troubles and sorrows if you feel led. Thanks to you I have “The Hole in Our Gospel” and “Radical” on my night stand to read, once I finish “Crazy Love” which I just started last week. Please you are such an inspiration. I am so sorry that you are being brought down by other’s. You are living your life just as He wants you to!
Oh wow…as the mother of a special needs daughter who will probably live with us forever, those are my only words. I m so sorry, but mostly sorry I missed the post! Let us enjoy it and just monitor your comments and leave the losers off or send their comments to me and I will counsel them :o)
She is beautiful, you are beautiful and some people are just plain UGLY, especially when they are convicted by what you do for the children of this world!
Your blog rocks! Your family rocks! Your pro life views rock! The video rocked, and most of all Hailee ROCKS!!!!
Your blog helped me get to where God wanted our family to be…..we are adopting Anastasia from RR. I pray that you will continue your ministry. It has helped families everywhere. “vengenance is mine, I will repay says the Lord.” We will all have to answer to our Father someday.
This is the first time I have commented on your site, but I read daily……God bless your PERFECT family!!!!!!!!!!!
Stephanie Lynch
http://www.openedeyesadoption.blogspot.com
Adeye, I’ve never commented on your blog before but i just wanted to say that what i saw in the video that you posted was a beautiful picture of honest family life. exactly what you said “a little girl playing with her daddy” and i LOVED hearing her laughter! i feel like it helped me know hailee so much better getting to see her reactions to the playful interactions with your husband. she is really communicating and interactive and SO alive, it’s amazing to see. thank you SO much for sharing that with those of us who really appreciated seeing it. it was wonderful.
i’m so sorry that you won’t be able to share those beautiful moments with your much loved children anymore. I’m just glad i was one of the lucky ones who got to see that slice of heaven before it was gone.
i’m not christian but I DO love children and i DO believe in protecting them from the horrible things in this world and i DO believe that you have ALWAYS done that so well and with such grace
thank you again for sharing, and i have 100% respect for you doing what you need to do to protect your children, it is a mother’s most important job.
much love, ~ashley
I saw your video and showed my husband and told him “See, when we adopt a special little one, we can give them a happy life like that”. Don’t know what anyone’s negative comment could have been - don’t want to know!
Your video stirred at least one heart, and turned at least one heart towards giving a special orphan a chance… mine.
I just have to telll you I saw that Video and she looked just like a angel. I am so sorry people are so cruel. I hope you keep on finding the strength to keep on blogging and fight off all the demons that call themselves humans. I dont know how people could say anything about those precious babies.
Oh my word, you’ve already gotten a gazillion responses. Wonderful!!
I read your post early this morning and it’s been simmering on my heart all day long. The first things that came to my mind are a couple of quotes that my son recently read to me (he is doing his senior thesis on The Screwtape Letters by CS Lewis.
Anyway,
“The best way to drive out the devil, if he will not yield to text of Scripture, is to jeer and flout him, for he cannot bear scorn.” ~Martin Luther
And…
“The devil…the proud spirit…cannot endure to be mocked.” ~Thomas More
I do believe that with each post you do about the victory (in Jesus) and progress of your amazing little girls, the enemy is scorned. He cannot stand that what he intended for harm, has turned into GLORY FOR GOD.
Just my thoughts.
Press on, my dear friend!!! GOD IS AT WORK!!!
I love you dearly!!!
Huh??? I kind of wish you could have posted an example of something someone commented, because I honestly can’t even imagine what it could be. No earthly idea! Something about your children?? What in the world??! I am so sorry that people are so wicked and you had to put up with it. I have a blog too, and I am just waiting for the first time someone will say something awful. I guess it’s just a risk we take.
I don’t understand Adeye. At all.
I saw the video and showed my children. Seeing Hailee giggle like that was pure JOY. I doubt she ever laughed before in her orphanage life. Ever.
I can’t even imagine what nasty comments could have been drummed up. You had other children on the couch playing if I remember correctly. What in the world was wrong with that?
I seriously cannot fathom.
I adore seeing your little girlies blossoming. It truly has CHANGED OUR HEARTS about the possibility of adopting children with an extra chromosome.
I totally understand your need to protect your children but I just can’t fathom in my wildest imagination how any critics could have found fault with that precious little video clip!
I love seeing your kiddos loving on each other…they have brought tears to my eyes on many occasions and even my big rough and tough military man has teared up a time or two looking at the way your littlest treasures have grown and blossomed.
Sending my love,
Holly
Your daughters (and your whole family) are so beautiful. I have followed your blog since you first committed to Hailee and have since read it almost every day. Your words of wisdom and references to God have strengthened/guided my own faith, and as a high school student I’ve really appreciated and benefited from your input on life. I too have a passion for special needs and it was your blog, among other things, that cemented my desire to be a special education teacher and adopt special angels of my own someday. Your life is an inspiration to me. Don’t let hateful people stop you from making a difference!
-Lauren
Adeye, wanted to add my voice to those who say we love reading your blog and love your kids just from seeing pictures of them and hearing about their past struggles and current victories! I so wish I had seen that video! Remember, we aren’t wrestling against flesh and blood, but against powers and principalities… Satan hates what you are doing and that you inspire others to do it too. He will use people to attack you and your family because if he can stop you from sharing, you can’t affect the world as powerfully as you are doing now. We know he’ll take cheap shots at the helpless, so it shouldn’t be that surprising when it happens. But it still is-who would take the time to read your blog just to leave negative comments? Don’t they have anything else to do? How sad! I love your blog and check it every day to see how you guys are doing. I’m blessed and inspired by your family. Love and hugs! Angie
You have done so much for adoption, please do not quit all that you do.
What???
What on earth could there have been in that video for anyone to criticize????
I watched it twice and my DH sitting across the room (not even looking at the screen) said “somebody has a totally infectious giggle!”
We both thought it was a hoot!
Anybody that says otherwise is looking for a fight!
What???
What on earth could there have been in that video for anyone to criticize????
I watched it twice and my DH sitting across the room (not even looking at the screen) said “somebody has a totally infectious giggle!”
We both thought it was a hoot!
Anybody that says otherwise is looking for a fight!
I am a regular follower of your blog and I watched the clip. It was lovely. As with anything you will have people that will want to crush you and will use your children to do it. Maybe it is time to have a closed blog but you shouldn’t have to because the things you write about are meant to uplift people. I am sorry they have hurt you.
WOW. I can say I never ever never ever saw this coming! Even with the title of the post…took me all day to read it…but life is busy! Anyways…WOW. I was so proud to share Hailee’s video with Dan that night showing her how far she has come. How can people…? You are right, we haven’t come too far in our own country. Incredibly sad. I must be just as naieve, I NEVER expected to read this post…EVER! Hailee is a wonderful treasure. some people….hmph.
I am speechless. Who are these people who criticize. I don’t get it!!! The photo of Hailee was so amazing compared to the little girl months ago. I just don’t understand those who are negative. Your family is amazing and don’t let a few make you think that blogging is not helping someone out there. These who throw words… I feel sorry for them, for they are the ones who are pathetic.
Adeye,
I am so sorry that someone was so ignorant. I did go back to look at the video the next morning and saw that it was gone. Unfortunately that is exactly what I suspected happened. Head up girl…the enemey is a LIAR and your King is fierce.
Trina
I just read your interview on Patti’s blog. She was my little Kareen (who we just committed to adopt) prayer warrier and advocate. I am so sorry about this sad situation! I would have loved to see that precious video. I really do NOT understand what is wrong with people….but when I start to feel down about all the mean and heartless people in the world, than I look at people like you and Patti, and all those others who are selflessly living their lives and making the world a better place. Thank you for sharing your children and your sweet family. Your interview moved me to tears and gave me so much admiration for you!
I didn’t get to see the video and I am sad that I didn’t. BUT I totally understand why you removed it. I find it incomprehensible that anyone would be hateful toward your daughter or ANYONE who is as sweet and adorable as she is, AND who has lived through what she has. OH MY! That makes me sick that it happened to you all. Keep up the God work you are doing. Sharing with us that are in your corner is selfless and also helps us to see life in a different and more beautiful way. You have been a testimony to this momma here. Blessings to you and yours.
I saw the video, and can’t for the life of me imagine what cruel things were said.
I’m just sorry.
That is so sad and shocking. So sorry for you. I have to say, I thought it was so sweet, I shared it with my hubby. How can you not look at your precious little sweetheart and the sadness in her earlier years and that beautiful belly laugh. She is a doll. On a side note, thanks for always keeping it real. I love reading your blog because it keeps my heart tender and aware of the sweet little orphans. You are a blessing as is your family. Hugs.
I am new to your blog, came from Patti’s after your interview, and let me tell you that you are my hero! People who purposely adopt special needs kiddos deserve a medal of honor, to me, you are the greatest of the great. Unfortunately, having a pulbic blog does open you up to the cruelness of some. Please don’t let the few deter you..I know that’s easier said than done. You have 127 positive comments and love and support on here already, we are the ones who matter!
I know from reading other blogs that I have seen negative comments and it’s sad really, that they have nothing better to do than to criticize. Those are people who can’t bare to look at themselves in the mirror, and we just have to pray God reaches them someday! Keep up the great blog!!
Oh sweet friend, I am so very sorry this has happened to you. Personally, I absolutely love keeping up with your crew. The reality of it for me is MEAN PEOPLE SUCK! I’ve had to deal with that on my own blog, and there am very selective in what I post. So sad, because it is a good portal to keep my friends/family in the loop for our life and adoption journey.
I had a very vicous person harrass me via my blog, then started calling my workplace, and went so far as to contact our corporate headquarters of our adoption agency because she did not like one particular post I had written.
MEAN, PURE AND SIMPLE, MEAN AND EVILNESS.
I keep reminding myself that the Lord proclaims, “vengenance is mine” and someday, this person will have to answer for all her evilness.
Keep on rockin’ it friend when it comes to your faith and heart for the orphans.
Blessings,
Suzanne
Those who are so hurtful must have been badly hurt at some point. It is sad that some of those who are so hurtful are raising children also. How will the children learn to love?
Don’t stop what you are doing…loving unconditionally and sharing your family and faith. I would almost put the video back up because it is perfectly fine. So many broken people who get enjoyment out of being hurtful.
Wonderful response. We love what the Lord is doing with your lives.
Praising God for your amazing family and for your kind, sharing, loving hearts.
God is indeed glorified by you and your family.
love,
Michelle
Adeye,
I am sad that you were so hurt! Your little angels are a HUGE reason why we are adopting!!!! I fell in love with Harper and Hailee the minute I laid eyes on them! I wish I could have seen the video. Your posts are a blessing to so many people - keep your focus on that! We are praying for you and yours!
For some reason, these seemed to fit as I was studying tonight…”A father of the fatherless, a defender of widows, Is God in His holy habitation. God sets the solitary in families;He brings out those who are bound into prosperity; But the REBELLIOUS DWELL IN THE DRY LAND” Psalm 68:5-6
“Learn to do good;seek justice, REBUKE THE OPPRESSOR, Defend the fatherless, Plead for the widow.” Isaiah 1:17 (all caps mine :o)
Oh, Adele…please do not..for one single minute….let the hatred of a handful of unhappy people…cause you to change one single thing you are doing to share the Light and the Word of our Savior.
There will always be people filled with anger, who are so miserable that they have nothing to offer the world other than a spilling out of hatred and judgement. I work with the public and have to deal with it all of the time. It is sad. Very sad.
You know, just as 99% of the people who watched that precious video, that there was absolutely nothing negative about it. It showed love and laughter and most of all-HOPE!!!
I am amazed to see the before pics of Hailey and then watch that video. It blessed me BIG!! I was really hoping to share it with my husband. Your Hailey story is amazing…a miracle!!
Do not let Satan’s puppets cast a shadow, my friend. I feel sorry for them…imagine waking each morning with hatred and misery and going to bed the same?
Keep shining His light, Adele!! Just as the Bible tells us to. Keep bringing awareness to the orphan crisis and to the special needs children. They need us to be their voice and I must say you are doing that beautifully!!
I adored the video of Hailee and actually emailed the link of that post to a friend who is in the process of adopting a child with DS from China. Because to see how far Hailee and Harper have come since you were blessed with them is just a miracle of God.
Please know that there are so many people rooting for you, your children and your family. You are loved (even if I don’t ‘know’ you and this comes off a bit stalker-ish).
Adeye, I must have missed the video post but I am shocked that this happened. I am so very sorry. The positive will overshadow the negative in the end.
Well I am another one who has rarely commented but I feel compelled to add my voice to those here. I started visiting your blog after seeing a prayer request from someone when you were still at the orphanage saving your littlest girls. My heart was stirred! I saw the video you posted and, well, I was moved to tears hearing the laughter pouring from that tiny angel. To think that just a few short months ago, Hailee had probably never laughed, never done what should be an instinct, a natural expression of emotion. I cannot imagine. She (and sweet Harper) have made unbelievable progress since joining your family. I am so sorry that someone left such hurtful things here about that beautiful video. There was nothing but a happy child and her Daddy enjoying each other. I am just so sorry. You have inspired so many people with your writings here. And without you, some sweet innocent children would still be laying in that dreadful place without a family. Thank you for sharing your life with us. Thank you for inspiring and encouraging people to have a heart for orphans. Please don’t be discouraged by those few hate- filled cowards who hide behind their computer saying things they would never say to a person in real life. Whatever happened to- if you don’t have anything nice to say then don’t say anything at all? I just don’t understand. I hope you feel the love from all the comments left here today. Sending peaceful thoughts your way,
Gina Brown in Port Townsend, WA
Sorry I didn’t have a chance to watch the video. It made me smile just to think of your sweetie showing her new found joy! I LOVE your blog and it saddens me to see attacks from the evil one. One thing is for sure the way you represent God on your blog is pleasing to him and the evil one is going to strike out at you. Keep giving God the glory and sharing this beautiful story with the world.
Joy
I did not see the video, but I can’t even think of what could be misconstrued by what I read. I’m sorry that you had to see ugly comments. I’ve learned lately, that some people just want to hurt others. Again, I’m sorry. I’m sure I would have enjoyed hearing Sweet Hailee’s giggle! Hugs!!
I’m sorry that there are unkind people who will never know the love of a special child. Your video was precious!! Please post more, as I am amazed at how far your little ones have come since being home. Who knows, maybe seeing more of your babies will lighten the hearts and educate these ignorant people.
I’m sorry that people are so cruel. All of your children are beautiful. I saw that video and it made me smile to see Hailee so happy and full of joy. It is such a blessing to read your blog and I love seeing Hailee and Harper blossom.
Blessings and Hugs,
Barbara
So. So. Sorry!
So. So. Sad!
Your video was PRECIOUS! I cannot imagine what anyone could say about Hailee, nor about the children in the background.
Oh my!
What has our world come to?
If someone doesn’t appreciate special needs children, why do they read your blog?
If someone doesn’t appreciate how your raise your children, why do they read your blog?
Praying for you, my friend.
Laurel
I was wondering where that post went. I saw it on my dashboard but whhen I clicked it, you had already deleted it.
Your post brought me to tears. I don’t know what was said but I agree that nobody should speak about anyone’s child in a hateful, evil way. The internet has brought with it the blessing of being able to share miracles and milestones with people across the world who are cheering for your little ones but it has brought the curse of giving hateful people the opportunity to say things that would NEVER be said to your face. It really is cowardly that such comments are almost always from anonymous posters.
Goodness - I watched the video and thought it was precious! I’m not sure what others said but I completely support your fierceness in protecting your child.
Rachel from Superior, WI
Oh Adeye… I’m so sorry that you had such an awful hateful thing happen. I saw the video too, and was so touched and happy to hear and see Hailee and her Daddy laughing! Please don’t change the way that you blog. God has given you a heart to share, and you might never know the GOOD that has come from your openess until the day that you stand before God and He says to you, “Well done”. You are an inspiration… your children are a blessing. You don’t know me beyond our RR connection, but I’ve been following your story since you were there fighting to bring your beautiful girls home. I pray for your family, and will continue. You’re right… they are perfect… and THAT will never change no matter what anyone says…
I cannot believe how people take time out of their lives to be so cruel. You say you have faults and flaws… I’d say they’re more like idosyncracies, mere differences that make life more interesting. Nevermind the naysayers. Don’t let them change your outlook on life because then they win. I hope their comments won’t change your outlook on blogging. Your blog, your story and your family has inspired me and motivated me.
I can’t even imagine how anyone could criticize the video of Hailee. I didn’t think it was anything other than adorable. I love seeing pictures of her and Harper being so happy now after all they endured. They are both gorgeous little girls! I guess some people are just hateful and cruel. They must be very unhappy with their own lives. Your family is beautiful!
Oh my - this sickens me- please post everything you feel comfortable posting- it is good! You children are beautiful and such precious gifts!
You are brave and strong(in Christ) and you give other courage to step out of their comfort zone (me and others). WE need you to do this!
Those who criticize are not following God- they are the opposition whether they know it or not… They are being used by the opposition. See them for what they are worth… nothing.
Be strong in your faith and conviction and please keep posting your love for the orphans and for our Lord!!
Hugs to you dear friend! I love you, your blog and your family!
I love your blog and loved the video. I don’t know what those people saw, but all I saw was a HAPPY little girl who not long ago was wasting away in an orphanage. I love watching your girls grow and learn with the support and love of your family. Thank you for sharing your life with this blog. I hope the positive comments outweigh the negative ones a thousand times over!
Oh ((((Adeye)))) I saw that video and it made my night. The joy coming form your little girl and her Daddy just touched my heart.
I am so sorry. Your family is beautiful and precious and a blessing.
I’m SO sorry that your family had to deal with this. It is *very* cruel to be mean to children, but especially children with special needs. And you’re right, the US doesn’t have a lot of support/tolerance for special needs kids. I know what I’m speaking of because, I too, have a special needs child; my son is mildly autistic. I only said this to let you know I can understand where you’re coming from. Just keep putting one foot in front of the other, trust in God & hold your chin high!! I *love* this blog and enjoy your family! God bless!
Hi Adeye and Anthony,
Along with all the poisonous haters who said cruel things about your family come others who loved the video and all your posts about the kids. Hailee, Anthony and the “STICKS” reminded me of everything great about being a little girl, roughhousing with Dad. Thinking of you!
OH MY… I think anyone who is out to attack you and your children is only doing it for negative attention and a reaction out of you.
I have never commented before, but I am commenting now so that you realize that there is a whole world supporting you cheering on your children. Don’t let the few negative commenters stop you from sharing your beautiful family with us. I found your blog several months ago during your last adoption and have become a regular follower. I have been very interested in Hailee’s progress and would have lOVED to see a picture of her thriving laughing with her Daddy. How precious are those girls!!! Just looking at the pictures of them in the orphanage vs. now is enough proof that LOVE really means something and can change a child’s world for good forever.
Supporting you and cheering your sweet family on! And Just remember, for every 1 negative comment you probably have 100’s of positives!
Good will always be attacked by evil… but good in the end as we know will prevail!
~Kristin from Omaha~
Awww. I wish I would have seen that video before you had to delete it. It sounds really sweet. It really is unfortunate that people use the anonymity of the internet to spew hatred. I read that so often on posts on many different blogs and it is so sad that people think it is acceptable. I have to wonder how many of these people would say those things if they were face to face with those they are attacking. You have a beautiful family. It is wonderful to see how much your daughters have changed since they came home. They are all absolutely beautiful.
Karen
I’m appalled that someone would or could say something like that. I can’t hardly believe it. So sorry that the devil took a swing at you.
You have a beautiful family, and always have inspiring messages to share on your blog.
Thanks for being here.
I just want you to know that I am covering your momma heart in prayer and asking God to protect it and heal the wounds that hateful words have caused. You are beautiful and so is Hailee!! God planned, God ordained, and God destined to go forth and touch many people’s lives with His unconditional love!! You have both already touched mine many times over!! What the enemy has meant for harm, God will turn around for good!!
Loved, loved, loved the video myself and the pure joy that I saw Hailee experiencing in it!! Thank you so much for sharing what God has done in her life so far!!
You will continuously be in my remembrance of prayers!!
I saw the video - and I was so touched - as much by the joy of your daughter as I was by her Dad’s love for her….that’s just something you don’t see in the world today….
I started to speak - then stopped and put my ‘sailor language’ away…but this response to your Dad and daughter video is just UN.BE.LEAVABLE!!
Suffice to say that I think there are people in this world that are simply in such pain - such want of love - such sorrow in their heart….that when they see the love of a father and daughter or hear glee and joy of a child that is unfettered by the controls that life puts on us….that they just have to tear it down because they HURT so much……
In many ways we - as parents - are the Blessed ones - our kids give us more than they take. I’m better having seen ya’ll living!
And the mean streak in me says - put the video back just to needle the ones that have anything negative at all to say about those whom deserve nothing more than to be held, loved, cared for, and hugged!
Blessings on your house - and hugs -
aus and co.
WOW I am shocked at how rude some people can be…I wish I had seen the video because I would like to pick Hailee and Harper up and give them big hugs…
Your family is so blessed to have them in your lives…please don’t stop sharing and blogging as I’ve used your blog for a friend of mine who isn’t a believer (YET) but she is very interested because of the things you write and she’s agreed to go to church with me this weekend!!!
Your family is beautiful and precious and all of your children ROCK!!!
This whole sad situation only affirms what many people want to forget….
Spiritual warfare is real.
You are a warrior mama and I am so sorry you had to deal with such cruelty….
But your pain may be just the thing that convinces ONE person to go save a precious child!
All things to the good and His glory!
Unfortunately I did not see the video that you refer to. But I know how much I appreciate your sharing. My husband and I have recent felt God’s urging to adopt and your blog has been very inspirational and encouraging. Keep up what you are doing! It is affecting more lives than you know!
I am an avid reader and follower and have been so inspired by your faith, love and determination. I am member of RR..and also a bio mom to a 5 yr old son with Ds. I wish I had the pleasure of seeing the video before you had to take it down. Some people are cruel, small minded, insecure in their own lives. The nasty commentors are probably lonely evil people with no friends. I hope this doesn’t change your mind about blogging and sharing your precious angels. There are children being saved at this very moment due to what you are shared on this very blog.
My heart absolutely breaks reading this post. I can’t possibly imagine what would make someone attack and say cruel words about a child. I didn’t see the video and I’m sorry I missed it. I would have loved to see little Hailee laugh. I am truly sorry for the hurt and pain anyone may have caused your family. The enemy will use anyone and anyway to bring us down. Just know you and your family have much love and prayers flowing to you. <3
Just wanted to add my voice to those who are sorry about your experience — there’s more of us out here who are supportive of you and of ALL children than those few who are hateful.
I’m sorry you and your family were the target of such hatred.
Thank you for having the courage to stay public with your blog though. You are reaching and planting more seeds than you’ll ever know. And God is growing and cultivating those seeds in hearts all around the world. The enemy sees this and wants to take you out. Wants to silence you. He doesn’t want the orphans rescued. He doesn’t want people to know that God can and WILL redeem lives and turn ashes into beauty.
You are a threat to the enemy because you are a child of God and you speak truth.
So tighten you armour, raise your shield of faith a little higher and DON’T BE DISCOURAGED! For if God is for you, who can be against you?
Aw!! I would have loved to seen the video of that beautiful baby laughing!
How dare people!
Adeye, I am so sorry that there is evil in our world. Keep your eyes on eternal purposes. These commenters are not of His world, they are of this world, which is a sad, sad reality. How horrible to be stuck in hell for all eternity amidst all of the horribly cruel people who are of this world. Oh how I delight in the Lord and cannot wait for my day of eternal paradise to arrive. Praise Jesus that He has given us the gift of salvation so that our eternity will ROCK, Hailee’s eternity will ROCK, and every person who accepts His precious gift will be surrounded by His joy and unconditional love for all eternity, an environment nothing short of pure bliss, 100% of the time. Yes, there will come a day when we will not endure one single mean or rude comment or person…ever. Come quickly, Lord Jesus!!!
John 15:18-21, “If the world hates you, keep in mind that it hated me first. If you belonged to the world, it would love you as its own. As it is, you do not belong to the world, but I have chosen you out of the world. That is why the world hates you. Remember what I told you: ‘A servant is not greater than his master.’ If they persecuted me, they will persecute you also. If they obeyed my teaching, they will obey yours also. They will treat you this way because of my name, for they do not know the one who sent me.”
Love you, sweet friend, and looking forward to spending eternity with you!!!
Oh wow…Adeye…I am horrified that anyone would leave hateful comments directed at your precious Hailee. I didn’t get to see the video but I’m sure it was wonderful. Don’t stop blogging…your family is such a joyful inspiration of what God can do.
Darn, I missed your video. I so would have loved to hear your precious angel laugh with her daddy. I’m sorry that people would even take the time to say something cruel.
Laugh on sweet Hailee. God is smiling!
(((HUGS)))
The Archers in MN
I have never commented on your blog but could not let this go. I am so sorry that there are people out there who would be so cruel. I am so uplifted by your story and your living the life God has called you to live. Try not to let this steal your joy.
I didn’t get to see the video, but I can’t imagine why anyone would be mean! I enjoy your blog, you are real and that is what makes me come back to read. I wouldn’t change a thing about your blog. It is always fun to read and you are inspiring! With all the blogs out there, you wonder if someone doesn’t like yours why they don’t go read somewhere else!
I can’t even imagine one possible thing that anybody could say about this video. I’m sorry that some people somehow found something wrong with this very cute video.
My husband and I enjoy every post on your blog….keep it up! Your blog has been THE deciding factor in many families decision to adopt.
I’m sorry I missed the video….people can be so mean..I don’t get it. Keep on being you!
I feel sorry for the people that found some flaw in your video.
(I am still baffled by what they saw that could be viewed as ‘wrong.’)
My heart aches for people so filled with their own unhappiness. I wonder what trauma they must have suffered to choose to spread hate.
You & I don’t have much in common….other than we are mom’s that love our kids…. and yet, all I see when I come to your blog is love, kindness and positivity.
I admire you and your whole family & the path you have chosen. I wish you each multiples of the joy you have been open enough to share with us.
Isn’t it sad that people have nothing better to do with their time than pick on a father who is playing with his daughter. A daughter who has made progress the likes of which I could never have imagined if I hadn’t read her story.
That person needs to make better use of their time. Maybe go advocate for some orphans so that they too can know the love of a family…
Oh, and how’s this for timing? the next post on my blog reader is this
http://pipecleanerdreams.blogspot.com/2011/01/lazy-legz.html
This boy is on a basketball team for people in wheelchairs. The name? Lazy Legz!
Hailee and Harper are just like other children, beautiful gifts from God. Those who say otherwise have problems of their own that they dodge by going after other people. And so I pray for rest and healing for your and your husband’s souls and I pray for those who make those nasty comments, may their eyes be opened and may their hearts be broken by God.
There is lots of prayer coming to you from San Francisco!
God Bless
Well, that explains it-I searched and searched for it, because my whole family is so excited to see her blossoming, and was so sad that it was gone! God bless you, and I’m sorry for your pain. I love that it does not keep you from focusing on the joy God has given you through these babies. Keep looking to Him, there are so many of us happy for you and your treasures, I pity the person whose eyes are not on the Lord’s goodness and faithfulness…there is no other word but pity…what a sad and unfruitful life they must live.
It’s true that here in the West - we are often as guilty as any other country when it comes to how we view and treat people who are different from ourselves - just look at our abortion rate. If we too had no access to medical care and no govt. or family support how hard would it be, how pressured would we be to make choices that are repellent when we truly know how precious each created one is. Your children are gorgeous and your blog is inspiring and I think may well be useful is helping people to see just how precious these special children and the many others out there are. May God bless you and keep you all.
Oh my friend, I am so so sorry you had that terrible experienc. I couldn’t wait to get home to watch the video, but didn’t get to watch it. All we can do is pray that God reveals Himself in a big big way to those people who are so cruel. Love and hugs Janelle xoxoxo
You just keep doing what you are doing! You are a TRUE inspiration in and around the adoption community! Because of you- hearts have changed and delicate little lives now have a future!
All you can do is pray for those who ‘don’t get it’. Again you and your crew is a REAL blessing in this world.
DONNA;0)
I realized how cruel this world is to imperfect children a mere 4 months after I brought our MR, Autistic/Bipolar little boy home. My posse of big brothers headed into the Burger King play structure with the biggest brother (a total pacifist except when protecting his family) in a fury.
Some bully in the playground had attempted to beat this child up for simply not knowing how to keep his pants up properly. His 3 big brothers chased the bully down and cornered him at my side to explain himself. His twerp of a mother screamed at me that I should keep my son locked up in a cloest so the world didn’t have to be exposed to his imperfection.
The only reasponse I had then is the same response I still have today. “He’s doing the best he can with what he has been given. What is YOUR excuse.”
We may not be able to change the world, but we change the world for these special needs children, and the brothers and sisters who love them and learn to fight for justice and love for them. Hang in there with your girls. Every time we stand up for love, we DO make the world better.
I missed the video, and I’m so sorry I did. I tried to go back and watch it and was sad to see it was gone. Hailee has just blossomed since she’s been home with you and I was looking forward to hearing her sweet laughter.
The sad thing is that society may say they are accepting of disabiity, but in reality it makes most people uncomfortable. And when people are uncomfortable many like to make themselves feel better, no matter that they are doing so at someone elses expense. It is just sad.
I love that you will continue to blog honestly and share your family with us all. They are all beautiful, as you are too!
Thank you too for your wonderful interview on Patti’s blog. I’ve been following her from the beginning as our little girls are just a few days apart in age.
Oh, one last random comment, I found your blog not long before you moved. I was sad you were so close then, and them moved across the county. (I was planning a trip to come meet your girls even though you don’t know me!)
Oh no my friend. I cannot believe what I am reading? How can anyone be so cruel?? I have met each of your children and they are treasured, adored, celebrated and have such a sense of God’s peace about them. May every hateful word you read be removed from your thoughts. We celebrate your precious little ones. And they are so beautifully and perfectly made!
oh adeye, i did not see the video or read the comments..i can only pop over for minutes here and there, so i know i miss some posts. but i am SO sorry that that happened..it is terrible and ridiculous and cruel and amazes me that people are so idiotic. I LOVE reading your blog, seeing your pics..our whole family does, and we are blessed and inspired and encouraged by all you have shared. praying for you this evening. your family is so stunning, so beautiful. darci
I read your post and began to cry, it breaks my heart that mean people attack innocent precious children! What a blessing you are to me as I read your blog and see the love exhibited in your family. If it is any consellation to you, you are an encouragment to at least one heart out here in bloggy-land…and I suspect many more!
I feel so sad reading this post. I saw that video and it brightened my day. The love and joy were so clear.
All your children are beautiful, precious human beings and I love reading about your family.
Thank-you for sharing your story. As an adoptive mum to my amazing 3yo daughter, I appreciate your thoughts and insights.
I will pray for you and your family and for protection from all attacks (including the cyber version).
I pray also for the small-minded attackers, that their eyes and hearts will be opened and they will see all children as God sees them.
I didn’t see the video although I would LOVE to had. Childrens laughter does something to theheart. I am touched by the enormous amount of love you have in your heart and family. I have 3 beautiful grown children, they are my joy and my life. We always wanted to adopt a special needs child or 2 but health didn’t allow. You are and your husband are truely amazing and an inspiration to me. Continue with all the good you do and don’t worry about the complainers. You are heros to the precious children who are lucky to call you Mommy and Daddy!! Our father on high praises the lifes you are living,
Have a wonderful day and maybe someday there will be another video of the childrens laughter for me to be warmed by, Kristin Krus, american living in Sweden with my wonderful Sweedish Hubby, my rock!!
I am inspired by your blog. I found the link on facebook a friend posted. I love your values and morales but most importantly you represent TRUTH and because of this truth you will be attacked by those who don’t seek His will. Your blog is a joy. I wanna be more like you…keep blogging…your making a difference.
I didn’t get to see the video you are talking about, but I am sure it was lovely and what’s not to love about a dad showing his girl that! People who hide behind their statements do not deserve your time or emotions. It is a sad world we live in, when people attack others who are defenseless. Please don’t stop sharing with us. You are incredibly inspirational to myself and many other people who don’t personally know you. What a testimony to the Lord you are!
I’ve been thinking about why people say such hateful things about your family.
“The heart is deceitful above all things, and desperately wicked, who can know it?” Jeremiah 17:9
“Out of the overflow of the heart, the mouth speaks.” Luke 6:45
“The mouth of the wicked pours out evil things.” Prov. 15:28
People say evil things because of the evil that is inside them. Apart from Christ, “there is none who do good. None who seek God. No not one.” Romans 3:9-18
The only righteousness we have comes from Christ. Romans 3:21-31
Keeping a biblical perspective on it, helps me to be compassionate and forgiving. (Not that it’s easy.)
I have a feeling that the comments were from teenagers or trolls from forums who like to lash out on happy families for fun. It’s unfortunate that these people may even have children themselves! The thought of such mean ignorance raising our Future is pretty freakin’ scary!
Your kids are beautiful. Who cares what other people think? especially such hateful “people?” You and Anthony and those children’s angels!